Affirmations
Hey, it’s your friend Brent.
Affirmations will probably be the most important part of your self-development.
They will be the basis for everything else you do.
Mastering them will be scary because…
Once you give up your old way of being, you’ll be able to have anything you want.
Think about it like this…
If what you tell yourself now (negative) works, doesn’t it make sense that the opposite (positive) would also work?
Your mind is far more powerful than you think.
And since 75% of communication is non-verbal, it makes sense that…
Who you are on the inside effects who you are on the outside… and how others react to you.
That’s another reason it seems as if I sometimes seem to do absolutely nothing and crazy stuff just “happens”.
Here’s what you need to do:
Take out a piece of paper and draw a line down the middle of it with a pencil (very important).
On the left side write down how it IS for you, truthfully.
What are your issues.
List them in order of priority if you can.
Example:
I never approach beautiful chicks because I don’t know what to say.
After you’ve finished with the left, write the exact opposite on the right side.
Example:
Beautiful chicks are easy to approach because I always know what to say.
Finish the rest of the right side.
Now, It’s time to erase.
I want you to re-write each positive affirmation and this time swing for the fence, go over the top.
Think of the most outlandish thing that could happen… and then… go one step further.
I call it ‘Severe Self Talk’.
Don’t worry.
It’ll be arrogant going in and confident coming out.
Really go for it.
Remember, you are only saying it to yourself, not out loud to anybody else.
Your inner voice is ‘talking so much smack’ that a regular affirmation just won’t cut it.
You need something really powerful.
Example:
Beautiful chicks always approach ME, ask for my number and I have to end the conversation first because they won’t stop talking.
Make it short and easy to remember.
After you finish all of them, pick the one that addresses your biggest, most important problem.
That is the one you will repeat to yourself daily.
It’s important to focus your energy on just one.
Don’t spread yourself too thin or you’ll become overwhelmed and this won’t work.
I want you to commit to your chosen affirmation for 30 days.
Why 30 days?
Because your sub-conscious is used to a lot of “false starts” in your past.
Remember that time you joined the gym as the result of a New Year’s resolution, went for 3 weeks, then somehow kept coming up with excuses for not going?
Yeah.
You know what I mean.
It thinks your new behavior is only temporary.
It assumes that you will eventually go back to the way it was before.
And rightly so, that’s been the case up until now.
Here’s another way to think about it:
Your sub-conscious is like a chick in love…
Her: Honey, you don’t say, “I love you” enough.
You: Listen, baby…you know how I feel about you;
why do I have to say it?
Her: I DO know how you feel about me but I need
to HEAR it, ALL THE TIME!
She needs constant re-inforcement.
Because, left unspoken, her inner voice goes crazy reminding her of all the reasons that you DON’T!
Get it?
Remember this affirmation:
Beautiful chicks always approach me, ask for my number and I have to end the conversation first because they won’t stop talking.
This is waiting to happen to you at ALL times.
You’ve probably heard the adage, “He’s an accident waiting to happen.”
It’s the same thing.
Here’s what should be going on inside your head during any interaction you have with ANYBODY:
Them: So how are you doing? Blah, Blah, Blah
You: I’m great. (inside you should be thinking:
Whatever, Beautiful chicks always approach
ME, ask for my number and I have to end the
conversation first because they won’t stop
talking.)
I’m not telling you to stop listening to people, but your internal answer to EVERYTHING is your affirmation.
Then, magically, everywhere you go weird things will start happening…
And guess what?
Beautiful chicks start approaching YOU, asking for your number and you have to end the conversation first because they won’t stop talking.
Once your first one comes true then start experimenting with the rest.
Do I still use affirmations?
You bet.
The negative voice in my head is often trying to break through and say, “You’ve been on a roll for a long time Brent, but it’s going to end TODAY”
My affirmation is,
“My roll will NEVER end! In fact, after I’m gone chicks will still be texting me.”
I no longer ask my inner voice for permission to be successful with chicks.
In a sea of negativity, it’s the positive energy that you send out to the world that cuts through the clutter.
So, start right now.
People are waiting for it!
** Testimonial **
I spent a night out with Brent and it was absolutely the experience of a lifetime!
I was very nervous at first but Brent was so easy going and friendly that it instantly took all the pressure off of me and within five minutes, at the first spot, I had a gorgeous young lady pressing herself up against me introducing herself and her two lovely friends.
All Brent wanted me to do was to watch, listen and learn.
But, after about an hour, it looked so easy that I drifted off on my own and was already getting similar results.
I have to admit that while I had one of my best times ever that night, and saw how easy it is to live such a fascinating lifestyle, I really don’t like to party THAT much. But soon after meeting Brent, and this is the kicker, he gave me one little piece of advice that has changed my life forever and has brought me so much more joy and success in all aspects of my life!
I’ll keep that to myself for now, but believe me, a few hours with Brent gave me something I’d been missing for a long time, and oh, by the way, dealing with chicks has become so second nature it is virtually an afterthought.
Thanx Brent!
– Ron, Northern California
>> MY RESPONSE:
KA-BOOM!
Man, I love seeing messages like this and I love when you guys get the stuff I’m teaching you.
Guys who are serious about living the most amazing life possible…
And take action on my materials.
Getting messages like this from you guys pumps me up.
I love seeing stories like this from you guys.
Now you’re getting a taste of what’s possible when you impliment my materials.
I think it’s safe to say Ron is another happy client. 🙂
Ok, so you might be reading this and you’re probably wondering…
“Brent that was awesome, what’s the best way for me to really learn this stuff?”
Hey, I’m glad you asked. 🙂
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