She’s staring at you
Have you ever been out, just doing your thing…
When out of the corner of your eye, you spot her…
And she’s staring at you.
How do you usually handle this?
Do you know what to do?
Have you ever been in this situation?
Where a chick stares over at you and you don’t know what to do about it?
Most of you guys have.
If you are like most guys, you may have wondered…
Should you hold the stare?
Who should look away first?
What direction should my eyes be going when the stare is broken?
Do you want my advice?
And this is coming from years and years of actually testing this stuff out in the real world.
You always want to break away first and go back to what you were doing before.
Think about it…
She’s staring at YOU
(which gives you power, because she is pursuing).
If you stare back and wait until she breaks it, you just gave all the power back.
The congruent thing to do is…
To break it off like it didn’t happen…
And then go over and say the following sentence:
You: I saw you staring at me
You: (smile and pat her on the back) It’s ok, I
might be interested too. But, I have a question
for you. Now that I’m over here, what are you
going to do with me?
If she says,
Her: I don’t know (and she means it)
You: Okay. Come find me when you do.(don’t say
it in a mean tone, keep it light)
Now, walk back to where you were and don’t look at her again.
(she may or may not come find you. Either way you are in control)
If she says,
Her: I don’t know (and it’s playful)
You: Okay, let me know when you come up with
something. (now change the subject) Until then,
where are you from?
Don’t milk (her staring at you) for all it’s worth.
It’s a sure sign that you have nothing else to say, you have no depth.
And another thing…
Don’t make her feel bad for playing along or showing interest.
Remember how hard it is for her to do in the first place.