How’s everything?
Real quick.
Go to a mirror right now.
Do you like what you see?
If you answered “No”…
That’s your first problem
And the only one that matters
Soooooo many guys are always worried about how chicks view them, but what you should REALLY be concerned with is…
How YOU view yourself!
The reason I say this is because… when you see yourself in a certain way, you’ll act in accordance with that belief, whether it’s true or not.
This is how the human mind works.
Make sense?
Your self-image is an accumulation of all thoughts, attitudes and opinions you have perceived and stored about yourself.
Here’s how it works:
Let’s say a chick calls you creepy.
Your subconscious records this as reality.
Now, every time you replay the experience of being called creepy, as far as your subconscious is concerned, it’s happening all over again because it doesn’t know the difference between a real or imagined experience.
So if you really think about it…
Every time you replay this, it gets recorded as reality all over again and reinforces your #1 belief, which is, “I’m creepy.”
And as these thoughts accumulate, they cement a pattern of belief.
As you allow them to build up, you then act out this belief.
And then, of course, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
So the big question is…
How do you combat this?
Next time you start replaying the picture in your head, change it to a positive outcome.
Think to yourself…
“What she actually said was”, “you’re_____________!”
And fill in the blank with incredible, attractive, hot, fascinating etc.
As your self-image becomes more positive, your actions will follow.
And as this happens things, chicks, the right people, everything starts naturally just “happening” and coming into your life.
Is this making sense?
It’s simple but very powerful IF you are consistent with it.
Try it and let me know what happens.
Ok, so you might be reading this and you’re probably wondering:
“That was So awesome, I want to learn more, what’s the best way for me to really learn this stuff?”
Hey, I’m glad you asked. 🙂
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