What do women want?
It is an age-old question.
Men are completely confused and looking for fast answers.
If that’s you, read on:
First of all, don’t ask women what they want.
When women are asked what they look for in a man, they usually say something like “a sense of humor” or “a nice guy,” – these are socially acceptable qualities that women can speak about in public without fear of being judged – they communicate some of her desires while keeping the conversation to decidedly safe topics.
But that is not really what they respond to.
Women respond to FEELINGS.
Every woman grew up knowing exactly how it would feel to have the ideal man. It is that feeling she must have when a handsome stranger sweeps her off her feet.
A woman does not choose a man because of who he is; she chooses him because of how it makes her feel.
There are four things a woman must have in order to feel fulfilled:
1) To feel special
2) To feel a deep emotional connection
3) To feel like a woman
4) To have passionate sex
First, a woman needs to feel appreciated for the unique individual that she is. She needs to feel special, unlike any other woman, and she needs to know that her man supports her in her endeavors.
Second, she needs to feel that deep, intimate emotional connection. She needs to have that emotional intimacy with her man. It’s a connection she shares only with him.
Third, she needs to feel like a woman. She needs to feel beautiful, sexy, and feminine. She needs to enjoy all those things that come with being a woman.
Finally, she needs hot, passionate sex. She needs to be seduced, enticed, teased, and satisfied, over and over again. She needs to experience new things, in new ways, including fantasies and roles. It makes her feel desired, affirmed, and alive.
So if you are new, if you are having difficulties with the lady in your life, if your sex life sucks, let me ask you this:
Is your woman getting all four of these needs met?
Be honest with yourself. A lack in any or all of these areas is accounting for the disconnect that you may be experiencing in the bedroom.
Look this list over. If she never seems to be in the mood anymore, this is why.