I really feel for guys who were raised in a home surrounded by women. You know, guys who were only raised by their mother, sisters, aunts, grandma, etc…
Because they were likely fed a huge LIE from the day they were born:
“You have to be nice to women to get them to like you.”
Is it true that you should respect women?
Of course. But being “nice” is something that will not attract them and will get you either rejected or in their friend zone every single time.
Why is it bad to be nice?
1. It’s not attractive – Women want a man who’s dominant. They want to feel protected and secure. A nice guy doesn’t give off that vibe. Therefore, he cannot attract a woman instinctually in the way she was biologically programmed.
2. It’s annoying – She doesn’t want to be with a guy who always says yes and is always in agreement with everything she says. She doesn’t want a guy who’s a pushover. She also doesn’t want a guy who’s needy. All of those nice guy traits are annoying.
3. It’s not challenging – Women like a challenge – a guy who’s not that easy to win. A guy who’s harder to win/conquer is more likely to be a catch in other women’s eyes. This brings out her competitive side and secretly turns her on.
With all of that being said, will acting like a jerk win women over?
You may think so due to the other dating myth that “Women always go for jerks.” However, that can certainly backfire…
Instead of acting like a jerk, there are certain ways to act like that ALPHA every woman wants. So stop being a nice guy and see them now…
The sooner you do, the sooner you’ll have bodacious babes in your bed every night. And the sooner you’ll lose that frustration of being friend-zoned…