Meeting Women Online And Other Great Places Today’s mailbag contains some GREAT questions… but one in particular just might change everything about how you think about meeting women and getting dates… starting IMMEDIATELY.
You’re really going to want to hear this, so keep reading to the end… Okay, on to today’s mailbag…
￼Q. ***SUCCESS STORY***
I’ve been a Wussy all my life, hooked up with a seemingly great gal, married, etc. and she started being unhappy.
She wanted to separate and the more I tried to give her what she wanted the worse it got. So here I was, starting all over again.
Got your e-book, went on to test your theories and found a lot of it really works and is true, especially about not giving a woman what she wants (not directly or immediately anyway).
I went on to get your Advanced program series and I am very impressed at how much more useful information is there, especially the stuff about re-programming the way we think.
Now I’ve started approaching more and more 10’s as if I could care less about talking to them, poking fun at something they say, do, have, or are (short, amazon tall, etc) and bust their balls for it… but always in a playful, friendly way with a big cocky smile.
They eat it up and can’t get enough, so I try to pull back.
That’s where my problem is.
Since I’m still a newbie I want to keep going but I realize that’s exactly when I need to hit the breaks and give her the gift of missing me, and making her confused about what just happened so she’ll be thinking about me till we meet again 😉
This won’t be my last posting to you!
A. Well, my hat is off to you. You have done something that I have a lot of respect for… most men are too stuck in one way of thinking to even try something new.
Every once in awhile I get an email from a guy who says “Your techniques would never work”… or “I’ll bet you’re making up all of the emails in your newsletters”… etc.
Today’s “Instant Success” Dating Tip
Meeting women online is by FAR the best training ground for learning to succeed with them… yet (unbelievably) most men have absolutely no clue how to make it work for them!
If you want to learn how to meet tons of great women, right now, right from your own home with VERY LITTLE EFFORT and ABSOLUTELY NO FEAR of painful, face-to-face rejection, there’s really only one way to do it.
I Always Laugh When I Read Comments Like These
First of all… all you have to do is walk out your door, and try some of the things you’re learning. Just try them (like my student above did). Take a week of your life and try new things to see if they work.
And again… congratulations again for actually putting yourself out there, controlling your emotions, and putting it to the test. You’re going to see dramatic improvements in the near future with women… because you had the guts to try something new.
Q. I’ve always been big into motivational materials. I’ve read every one of Napoleon Hill’s books at least 10 times each plus dozens of others from several authors.
I bought your program series obviously to increase my success with women but the material applies to all areas of life. I’ve watched it over and over and over again during the past 2 months and the changes are amazing.
A lot of potential I had locked up inside me seems to have been unleashed. Going out and having success with women definitely adds confidence to all areas of life but the self-image and self-confidence exercises you go through have had a lot to do with it as well.
For quite some time, I’d been working on finishing up a sales training book and audio program based on the huge success I’ve had in my selling career using unconventional methods.
Finally, about a month ago while watching your program again something just snapped in my head and I sat down, got the website up, got the marketing started, finished up the product, and I’m already making more money from that than from my job and already have booked my first speaking engagement!
Seriously, your program and the self-improvement messages and exercises had a lot to do with it. Thanks not only for more success with women but in my life in general!
A. Know what, FR? As you can probably tell, I’ve read quite a few self help books myself, and spent a lot of time reading motivational materials. And I discovered something very similar in my journey over the last few years…
Start Succeeding With Women, And You’ll Start To Succeed IN LIFE
There’s just something about being confident you can leave your house any time, any day, anywhere and meet women that puts your mind at ease.
In fact, I can remember five years ago or so in my own life… when I was single, I was insecure.If I didn’t have a girlfriend, I felt this strong insecurity and weakness. It was a kind of shadow that covered all of the other areas of my life.
Obviously, now things are very different for me… and you, too. Now that we can meet women anytime we want, it has freed up a part of our minds that used to be devoted to trying to figure out how to get them (and constantly worrying that we couldn’t).
What a HUGE relief, right?
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Thanks for the email.
Q.Finally a chance came to really test your book and I was overwhelmed by the results.
I had gotten your online book about 6 months ago and now that I’m out of Student Teaching I have time to put it to work. I was the DD for a trip to a really hot club in NC. I overcame my fear of dancing and got out there.
I was rejected by some girls but that didn’t matter: I ended up spending some good time with the most incredible looking woman I have ever seen. She is as if God had put her together out of all my favorite things in a woman.
I played by the rules. Left her and danced with several others just when things were looking great. Just before closing time I’ve got her by the hand leading her to the bar.
A couple of cocky/funny minutes and I have her email and phone number. What a confidence booster!
Only thing is, she is Spanish and doesn’t speak English very well. Thank God I speak a little Spanish myself. I just emailed her back (she wanted to know when I was moving to NC). But how to do C & F when English isn’t the main language?
Boosted but needing help still.
A. Say what, Boosted? You know how to meet beautiful women… but you’re emailing me to ask how to be Cocky & Funny by email with a woman who speaks a different language?
You’re killing me…
Don’t worry about being Cocky & Funny. It’s just one piece of the formula, not the entire game. In this case, this girl obviously likes you… so open up your “Bridges Report” that you got with the Double Your Dating eBook and read it again.
You need to get in front of this girl again, and do something. Now GET TO IT, and quit wasting time writing her love letters!
My shy demeanor while standing back and hoping my looks will attract has provided little success with the hot women I wanted to meet.
I am 44 years old and have been doing this shy respectful what does she think of me frame forever and real results where just not happening.
I bought your advanced series and was hooked. Re-framing and not caring about the outcome is so powerful!
On the first night out after listening to your series was fantastic. I went to a concert with a friend of mine and I immediately interacted with a very attractive 25 year old at the refreshment counter.
At intermission we were back for more with her but just not really getting in. At that moment I stopped 2 very hot women walking by and proceeded with cocky and funny and a who cares about the outcome frame and within two minutes one of them was asking for my number and actually initiated a kiss!
Women are competitive, I turned around and this attractive server was wide eyed smiling and also proceeded to also ask for my number. I am getting together with both of them after they initiated the first call to me the very next day!
I felt that power in almost every situation I encountered that night and ended up with 8 phone numbers in total!
This was only my first step with so much more to come. Your series was clearly the best investment I have made in this women and dating area!
A. Let me get this straight, NZ. You got 8 PHONE NUMBERS in one night out… Not bad for a shy and respectful 44 year old guy, huh?
But listen… that’s not the best part… The best part is that you learned an important lesson. You realized that women are ultra competitive. And one of the strangest aspects of this competitive nature is that the more attractive a woman is, the more competitive she usually is with other women.
This is exactly the reason why…
- Married guys often get more than their fair share of attention from women.
- If you’re out on a date with a super-hot woman, other women will look at you (and her) more.
- If women see you talking to other women, they will be more likely to talk to YOU.
- Walking into a bar and talking to every woman in the place makes other women more receptive to you.
I can’t figure it out for the life of me, but hey, I don’t ask why electricity works. I just flip the light switch on. And the situation you mentioned… talking to one or more women, then stopping to talk to different women, then turning back to the first one… is very powerful.
Paying Attention To Lots Of Women Says All The “Right Things” About YOU To Them
It’s like strong eye contact, or slow and deliberate movements. It instantly communicates everything that you need to say without words.
This is truly the easiest, most powerful way to start having instant success with women, and I recommend that any guy who wants to learn more about making it happen click here.
In the meantime, thanks for calling my program the best investment you’ve ever made in the women and dating area. I put a lot of time and energy to make it the best, and it’s great to hear that it’s working for you.
Q. I have your Advanced Dating Techniques program set and it was well worth the money spent many times over.
It has been amazing to see how many mistakes I have made over the years with women due to a weak inner game and understanding of women.
Thank you for taking the time and energy to put this series together. I am finally getting it. I am now putting your techniques into practice with a new confidence and will report back soon I’m sure with success stories.
My question is when using online dating services such as match.com, what is an effective way to describe yourself in your profile, what you’re looking for in a mate, and also what are effective methods for an initial email to a woman of interest?
A. Hey W, you’re busted… sounds to me like you haven’t listened to the entire program yet.
Later in my Advanced Dating Techniques program, I actually provide you with SUCCESS PROVEN EXAMPLES of profiles that I’ve personally used to meet women online, several examples of instant message conversations, and insights into the psychology of meeting women using the Internet.
Fact is, I actually met one of my last girlfriends on the Internet. She was 5’10” tall, and one of the hottest woman you’ve ever seen in your life. Not to mention intelligent, funny, emotionally stable, and a joy to be around. Best of all…
This Amazing Woman Contacted ME First!
All of which is why, also in Advanced Dating Techniques, I interview one of my good friends… the guy who taught me how to meet women online… and he shares some of his secret strategies as well. Learn more about all that here:
In the meantime, a quick hint about most of these online dating sites that most guys don’t know:
If you update your profile, it brings your ad back to the top of the pile and more women see it. So update your profile daily. Even a small change will do… and it will exponentially increase your results.
Now go watch THE WHOLE PROGRAM. It’s all in there, plus a whole lot more, including:
- Specific exercises (that I’ve personally used for years) to help you improve your self image and eliminate all your fears and anxieties about women and dating… for good!
- How to create powerful sexual tension that turns a woman on and makes her think about you day and night
- How to smoothly take things to a physical level with a minimum risk of rejection
- Every specific technique you’ll need to directly access the deeper, primitive part of women in a way that makes them automatically feel attraction for you
And much, much more… Point is, these techniques are so powerful that I personally guarantee to you that women will comment on them and even thank you for using them.
I know, sounds a little hard-to-believe, but I’m not kidding. This program is simply the best thing available…
It will teach you more great ideas than anything you’ll find anywhere at any price, and I am convinced that it will change your life, and help you meet more women.
Can you tell that I want you to get this program? So much, in fact, that I’m going to let you watch it all the way through… then decide if you want to keep it! No questions and no hassles, socheck it out here.
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In the meantime, thanks for the great questions. Keep them coming, and I’ll talk to you again soon.
I’ll talk to you again soon.