How NOT to be nice

I really feel for guys who were raised in a home surrounded by women. You know, guys who were only raised by their mother, sisters, aunts, grandma, etc…

Why?

Because they were likely fed a huge LIE from the day they were born:

“You have to be nice to women to get them to like you.”

Is it true that you should respect women?

Of course. But being “nice” is something that will not attract them and will get you either rejected or in their friend zone every single time.

Why is it bad to be nice?

1. It’s not attractive – Women want a man who’s dominant. They want to feel protected and secure. A nice guy doesn’t give off that vibe. Therefore, he cannot attract a woman instinctually in the way she was biologically programmed.

2. It’s annoying – She doesn’t want to be with a guy who always says yes and is always in agreement with everything she says. She doesn’t want a guy who’s a pushover. She also doesn’t want a guy who’s needy. All of those nice guy traits are annoying.

3. It’s not challenging – Women like a challenge – a guy who’s not that easy to win. A guy who’s harder to win/conquer is more likely to be a catch in other women’s eyes. This brings out her competitive side and secretly turns her on.

With all of that being said, will acting like a jerk win women over?

You may think so due to the other dating myth that “Women always go for jerks.” However, that can certainly backfire…

Instead of acting like a jerk, there are certain ways to act like that ALPHA every woman wants. So stop being a nice guy and see them now…

The sooner you do, the sooner you’ll have bodacious babes in your bed every night. And the sooner you’ll lose that frustration of being friend-zoned…

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3 Easy Ways to Get Women to Invest in the Interaction With You

Today, we’re gonna be talking about something important.

Whenever you see a guy that most guys consider “alpha” or good with women, he’s probably considered this way because instead of investing in them, they’re investing in HIM.

This is the exact opposite of what 99% of relations between men and women are like. That’s why he stands out.

Today, we’re going to do a quick break down as to way, and explain the basics of Investment.

Investment is one of the most POWERFUL psychological factors at play when dealing with other people. You can read more about investment in Dr Robert Cialdini’s seminal book on Social Psychology “Influence.”

Investment for PICKUP will be defined as follows:

“A devoting, using, or giving of time, talent, or emotional energy by a woman for the purpose of interacting with you.”

In other words, she likes you so she spends a lot of effort to hang out with you.

Here’s a few easy ways to get women to invest in the interaction with you:

1) Emotionally.

The more intimate of a level of detail about her life a woman reveals to you and accepts you revealing to her, the more invested she will be in the interaction.

This means prioritising your genuine emotional connection is a really, really good idea.

2) Qualifying herself.

The more a girl works to explain herself to you and to win you over, the more invested she becomes.

The easiest way to do this is to have strong boundaries.

3) Time.

The more time a woman spends around you, the more invested she becomes.

This actually goes both ways.

4) Financial.

If you can get a woman to buy you a cheap drink or pay for the cab back to your place, she will become more invested.

Don’t think you have to pay for everything. After all, why would you?

Investment is truly the link between getting attraction and making a woman feel compelled to see you again. So be sure to look for opportunities to increase it the next time you get attraction.

P.S. The level of investment you receive from women directly relates to your level of confidence.

This is because your confidence naturally makes you interact with women in the right non-needy way.

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Nice Guys and The Paradox of Courage.

Nice Guys see Bad Boys taking chances, embracing uncertainty, boldly interacting with women with no guarantees.

And Nice Guys envy Bad Boys for it.

The Nice Guy deludes himself with the completely unrealistic fantasy that there is “the magic technique” with which he will not have to put his masculinity on the line.

The “secret super power” of the Bad Boy is not something the Bad Boy has that the Nice Guy does not. The secret super power of the Bad Boy is that he has recognized as his greatest asset that which the Nice Guy continues to condemn within himself as his greatest weakness – the ability to stick ones neck out and be vulnerable.

When we see someone else being vulnerable, we perceive it as courage. And we esteem the hell out of it. When other people have the guts to be vulnerable, we label those people as valuable, admirable, impressive.

Now here comes the weird paradox: the same vulnerability, when we perceive it in ourselves, tends to get labelled very differently. When we put ourselves out there, when we feel exposed, when we embrace uncertainty, we don’t call ourselves “cool”, studly, or courageous. We call ourselves weak.

The Bad Boy’s secret is not that he’s invincible – it’s that he is vulnerable.

Bad Boys are willing to show things that Nice Guys insist on hiding. Their passion. The pleasure they derive from a woman. The desires a woman sparks within them. The dark thoughts that they have under the influence of a woman’s beauty. The raw masculine energy that courses through them.

These qualities are not techniques that can be taught in a school. They are naturally occurring aspects of masculinity that are stimulated into activity by femininity. These qualities form the basis of the Bad Boy’s appeal.

Thus, if you do not challenge your fear of vulnerability, no amount of technique will save you.

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The Way To Get Her Interested

Have you ever stared at a disgustingly HOT chick, only to become disappointed?

It’s not her rock-hard nipples peeking through her top that disappoint you. Nor the shine coming off her perfect legs. And her round hips and butt? Yeah, those aren’t the problem either.

Your disappointment comes from the UPHILL climb you dread. You start to think about just how HARD it will be to get her in the sack. To see what’s underneath those tight clothes.

And then what? You GIVE UP before you even started. You won’t even stare at her anymore. Because you know you CAN’T have her.

To make things worse, some other douchebag comes along. Strikes up a quick convo with her. And then something odd happens that totally PISSES you off. She leaves with him!

How the hell did he do it? Did he spray some magic dust in her face? Hypnotize her with his eyes? Who knows? But you could get the same effect with just this…..

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SAY THIS to that girl in the dog park or grocery store…

A friend of mine wanted to talk to a girl at the dog park…

He walked his dog there all the time, and whenever he did, he’d see her…

She’d always give him this cute smile, play with her hair nervously, or tell him his dog was adorable, then she’d walk on..

He wanted to talk to her EVERY time…

But never once had the nerve…

He’d brainwashed himself into thinking something easy was actually really “difficult”…

So he asked me how he could do it.

I told him a few things he could say…

He could have said something cheekily like “You again?”

Or even laughed and playfully said “What about me?” when she told him his dog was adorable…

Or he could have just said “Wait a sec” and talked to her about ANYTHING…

But what I quickly realized after giving him these lines was that his big fear was that he didn’t actually know what to do AFTER he broke the ice…

How could he keep it going? How could he get her number? How to make sure she remembered him when he texted her later?

Now, here’s the thing…

Meeting women at the park, the store, or even at work isn’t impossible…

In fact, is actually a lot easier than you think, however, it requires having three specific things

1. a clear beginning to the conversation
2. a clear middle
3. a clear way to end the conversation

If not, your mind will resist starting the conversation because our mind resists doing things where there is a high level of uncertainty…

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Want to be Attractive?(4 keys)

Four characteristics of Natural Attraction are:

– Being Interesting

– Being Masculine

– Being Fun

– Being Confident

Today I want to zoom in specifically on the idea of being FUN.

Fun is the “ultimate attraction switch” isthat overrides everything else.

If talking to you is the most fun option for the girl, she’s going to keep doing it, even if it means ignoring her friends, the dance floor, etc…

Fun is fully definable.

Fun is a surplus of positive emotions. The more good emotions you make a woman feel, the more fun you are. Simple as that.

But this doesn’t mean you start acting like a “performing clown.”

(That’s what most guys do, and it doesn’t work. You just come off like your begging for laughs).

Here’s what you want to do:

Humor is one of the best tools for conveying fun. Whether or not you want to believe it, I have NEVER met a guy who was great with women who wasn’t at least a little bit funny.

If you want to get better results with women, you HAVE to be able to make them laugh consistently.

Another major tenet of fun is the idea of self-amusement.

Self-amusement is the ability to genuinely feel amused by what you’re doing, the jokes you’re telling, and the situations you’re in.

Get rejected? You see the funny side. Say a cocky line? It makes you grin.

This isn’t something you want to fake. It’s something you want to stem from a genuine enjoyment in your own life.

I simply cannot overestimate how much having fun helps with picking up girls!

Lots of guys get way too obsessed with demonstrating value and neglect making sure that they’re interactions with women are fun first for them and then for the woman they are speaking to!

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She’s LYING to You (how to know for sure)

If you’re like most guys reading this, you probably think you’re pretty good in bed.
Maybe even better than average…

You can last long enough, you know some good “moves,” and girls usually tell you they liked it.

Yeah, you and every other guy…

But the truth is, over 80% of women admit to faking orgasms and LYING to men about how good the sex was.

So the odds are overwhelming… even if girls tell you the sex was good, most of them are BULLSHITING you!

Think that couldn’t happen to you? Then answer these questions honestly:

Think about the last girl you slept with…

Did she stick around and keep coming back for more?

Was she raving about you to her friends… daydreaming about you while she’s at work… eagerly initiating sex every single time she sees you?

Or did your relationship start to fizzle out after a while?

Maybe she faded out on you after a few dates?

Maybe she was telling you she’s busy, or “I’m just not ready for anything serious right now.”

Or maybe she didn’t even care to explain it and she just ghosted on you…

Her texts got shorter and shorter, until she just stopped getting back to you.

She forgot about you…

You just didn’t matter that much to her.

Look, if you’re anything like most guys reading this right now, this has happened to you at least once or twice, and it SUCKS.

So let me tell you what you NEED to hear, even if it hurts your ego.

The number one reason you lost that girl – or any other girl you really wanted – is because you didn’t give her an orgasm.

Even if you have a monster dong and you can last for hours, that’s not what really makes her addicted to you… (that’s just some BS you see in porn that doesn’t translate to real life)

To a woman, it’s not about your size, your “moves” or your stamina…

None of that matters unless you can penetrate her imagination.

That’s right, her most important “erogenous zone” isn’t anywhere on her body, it’s between her ears – her mind.

If you want to penetrate her as deeply as possible…

To the core, so she is totally filled up by you, and only you.

And she literally can’t stop herself from coming back for more..

Coming again and again and again…

So you OWN her… mind, body and soul…

Then you gotta be able to penetrate her mind.

You gotta know what to say, and how to “trigger” her sexual imagination.

Do it right, and she’ll get sexually addicted to you.

And I don’t mean that metaphorically, like “aw yeah dude, she’ll really enjoy sex with you now.”

I mean LITERALLY addicted… on a biochemical level.

She will feel physical “withdrawal symptoms” if she goes more than a day or two without feeling your dick inside of her.

And she will be starving for your cock every time she sees you.

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Setting Up Dates The Right Way

Today I wanted to teach you a little bit about setting up dates the right way…

Guys tend to massively underrate the importance of dates. What they don’t realize is that the FASTEST way to get laid more is to become a better date.

But before you can become a better date, you have to learn to set up dates in a way that girls will ACTUALLY show up for them!

Every guy out there has been talking to a girl and said something like “We should hang out sometime, give me your number.”

While this better than nothing and can work when the girl is really into you, it’s still not a great way to set up a date.

Instead, what you want to do is have a set date that you ALWAYS invite girls out on.

That’s right, this is one of those places where “routines” can really help you.

Not only should you have a set date that you always invite girls on, you should also have a set story to introduce said date.

Here’s an example I used to use:

“Have you ever been to Cork? They have really cool wine tastings every Wednesday. My friends and I like to go there for every week. We always have a crazy time, plus they have really good tapas. And they give you free wine! It’s always one of the best days of the week!”

Here I’m overselling, but bear with me…

If you oversell the place without inviting her, it seems like the place is legitimately cool. If you oversell it while you’re inviting her, it looks like you’re trying too hard to IMPRESS her.

Make sense?

After you’ve “seeded” the idea of what you’re going to do, it’s time to invite her to come with you. There are two different schools of thought on how to invite the girl out.

There’s the old school “High Value” tactic of inviting a girl to “come tag along” with something you’re already doing. This should be used when you’re not sure if it’s really “on” or not with party girls.

Then there’s the idea of showing GENUINE interest in seeing her specifically again. That’s where you say something like “I really want to bring you with me next week.”

Or:

“I think it would be really fun for you to come with me.” This should be used when it seems like the girl is really into you or when the girl is a little more down to Earth.

Lastly you want to say something simple like “Ok give me your number and we’ll figure out driving and stuff.”

And Voila you have set up a date.

Now you just need to know what to do on the date.

P.S. That’s how you set up a solid date. But you want to make sure you’re doing this with a girl who doesn’t flake.

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The Easiest Way To Be More Attractive When You’re Older…

Today we’re going to be talking about Pre-Selection.

Pre-selection is the idea that women will be MORE attracted to you if they see you with other women… And it is huge for older guys.

The reason Pre-selection works is because of what’s called “thin slicing.”

As described by Malcolm Gladwell in the book “Blink”, thin slicing occurs when people make snap decisions about people, places and things.

When a woman sees you with other women she automatically thin slices that you are safe and attractive.

Because after all why would girls be hanging out with a guy who was creepy or unattractive?

This is huge for older guys because older guys often have more of that “creepy” hurdle to overcome, and it can often TANK their results.

There is no better way to overcome this hurdle than by genuine pre-selection.

Pre-selection can be displayed verbally by mentioning an ex-girlfriend casually in a story, or by talking about hooking up with a girl recently.

The more subtly you can do this, the better it works. You don’t want to force verbal pre-selection into a conversation or do it in an incongruent way.

Pre-selection can also be demonstrated by parading a girl around a bar or a club, or being surrounded by girls as you talk to them.

In other words, hang around with women. It’ll help.

P.S. If you’re an older guy, it can be hard enough getting women your own age let alone younger women.

Here are my best ways of making it all a lot easier…