Let’s jump straight in…
You want to have a variety of places you go to where you can either meet or bring women you’re interested in.
Generally you should have at least 3 different places that you can meet women.
It’s good to meet girls at bars, coffee shops, and at the gym.
You can also bring dates to all 3 of these places to socially proof myself with the people that work there.
This brings us to the SECOND point of places you go.
Social proof and “high status treatment.”
You might go 3 different bars within 5 blocks of your apartment where your could skip lines, and get free drinks.
This happens because you go to these bars multiple times a week for a variety of different reasons.
On the weekends, you would go there to pick up girls, on weekdays you would go there with girls you are seeing or on dates…
Sometimes you can just go there to eat some appetizers and chat with the staff.
The point is you want to be seen A LOT.
One mistake guys make when they are trying to network or get “hooked up” is they ask for names too early. You don’t want to look like you’re desperately trying to make friends with the bartender as that can be transparent.
Also make sure to tip well early on. You don’t have to keep tipping that well but you should always leave more than 15% for bartenders.
Another thing you can do to stand out is order the same drink every time. Don’t do anything cheesy like ask for the “usual”. But if you do this right, the bartenders should ask you if you want your drink a few weeks in.
You also want to make sure that you bring girls around these places AS MUCH as possible. As silly as it sounds word does get around bars and regulars do exist.
The more people are talking about how you’re always in there with different girls, the easier it will be to get special treatment and sleep with members of the bar staff…
Lastly you want to make sure that you befriend the “regulars.”
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Seducing women and making friends actually has the EXACT same skill in common.
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People you are going to see OVER and OVER again. You want to make the best possible impression with these people. The more they like you, the more they will help you in a variety of ways.
The FIRST way regulars can help you is by providing you with a “home base.” When you’re out alone, or with a date, you can always stop by and chat with some of the regulars.
It helps you with “social proof” on dates, and helps get you warmed up and talkative when you are out alone.
The SECOND way that getting to know regulars helps you is through make shift social circles.
Regulars often have friends who come out every once in awhile, oftentimes these friends are attractive women from out of town looking to party that night.
An introduction goes a long way in that situation.
You can reap similar benefits in coffee shops, yoga classes, and gyms as well.
So bear all of this in mind as you go about your life.
Talk to ya soon,
P.S. You’ll get great results if you build a thriving network of social connections and venues like this. It takes work, but it’s worth it.