Most men have no clue about how dominance and submission really work.
They think that a man commands a woman in order to get what HE wants. Nothing could be farther from the truth.
A true Dom give a woman a command in order to empower her. He is not trying to get a behavior from her, he gives a command in order to give a feeling to her.
A Dom asks himself, what feeling do I want to make her feel? And then makes a command that will cause her to feel that feeling.
He offers opportunities without ultimatums. That’s how he is in control without being controlling.
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