Allow fear to flow through

No matter how good you are at attracting what you want…

You may experience “down time” or periods in your life, when no matter how much you work on allowing great things into your life, you lose your forward momentum.

It happens.

Even the most successful people experience reversals of fortune…

But no matter what, they always seem to end up on their feet.

How is this?

What makes these people different from you?


They allow fear to flow through them in the face of change,

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And look for new opportunities or creative solutions to emerge.

Then, they take a leap of faith,

Even if it requires giving up old ways of doing things.

Here are some things to keep in mind which will help you through any rough patch:

Don’t freak out!

What goes up must come down, and vice versa.

During the down times, play it conservative in terms of managing your social life, for instance.

Meanwhile, don’t be afraid of new opportunities that could lead you down a different path.

Keep in mind that there just might be a pot of gold at the end of the new path…

IF you take some calculated risks to get there.

Allow the fear (of change) to flow through you,

And keep moving forward.

Many of you guys tend to get paralyzed in the face of change and a downturn in your fortunes.

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If you experience fear,

Feel it flow through and out of your body,

Then move yourself down the path that you’re being pointed.

With time and patience, you are likely to find your life even better than before.

Keep visualizing the positive and resist the urge to allow the negative in.

When confronted with change, resist the urge to visualize the worst-case scenario.

This will allow you the room to come up with creative solutions to your situation.

Give up the past.

Sure, it’s painful to let go of what we know to be an absolute truth in light of an uncertain future,

But it’s all a natural part of life.

The sooner you give it up, the sooner you’ll have nothing to lose.

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Yes, women want it

Let me drill something into your head right now:

Women WANT to have sex!

Not as a reward to a Nice Guy, but simply because WOMEN LOVE SEX!

Further evidence of this can be found in any woman’s fantasy book, such as “Her Secret Garden” by Nancy Friday. That will blow your mind.

Women have elaborate, intricate fantasies beyond anything men can imagine. For women, it is largely mental and emotional, and about being “taken” and “ravaged.”

So, more accurately, I would say that:

Women LOVE to get FUCKED!

In the context of consent, mental stimulation, emotional rapport, and trust women love to be taken and ravaged like the sluts that they love to be.

Now that does NOT mean that women want to be sluts. In the correct context, with her trusted lover, women love to become ruthlessly expressive sexual creatures. They want to get “slutty.”

In many cases, women are far hornier than men. One woman I knew who was in her late 30’s told me “I get so damn horny! I feel like a 16-year-old boy. It’s not fair!” Another woman told me “It gets worse at the time I ovulate. Every man I see with a cute butt I want to jump him right then and there and ride him hard!”

Did you ever know that some women have looked at you that way? It’s true! How does THAT feel?

(But they’re not going to tell you that.)

So why did all that social programming want us to believe that women didn’t like sex that much? It appears that there are a number of reasons for this:

Social programming protects women from men who only want to use women for sex.

If social programming trains people to believe that women must first be in love to have sex, or must first be in a committed relationship, then women always have a defense against men who view women as just objects.

It keeps young women in check. If parents teach their children that sex is only for love and marriage, then maybe their children won’t go out and have sex and get pregnant.

Interestingly, social programming does parallel the reality of being a woman to some degree. What I mean by that is the following:

Most women are sexually submissive. They do not initiate sex. Instead, they respond to their man when he initiates. And most women prefer it that way.

Women are excited by the fact that their man is excited by her. Women love to be desired and “seduced” by their man. It makes her feel feminine and beautiful.

Unfortunately, though, women are also victims to social programming. Social programming is interpreted to mean that any woman who loves sex must be a slut.

Even though women love sex, they’d never admit it to a stranger. It would make them appear as a slut. And it would invite advances from men who objectify women.

The advantage of all this social programming is that since it is against social norms for a woman to love sex, it makes it even more exciting WHEN a woman demonstrates that she loves sex. Anything that is taboo is even MORE exciting because it IS taboo.

All of us men have been raised to be proper, polite gentlemen and we have been taught that to suggest sex to a woman would insult her because it would insinuate that she is a slut.

That piece of social programming hinders men and puts men in a predicament. A man wants to be sexual with the woman he is interested in, but he can’t suggest it because it would insult her.

The woman certainly can’t suggest it because that would define her as a slut. And besides,  women are sexually submissive and they prefer that the man initiate.

So what are men to do?


Change your beliefs.

Change your programming.

Program yourself with more powerful beliefs.  Empower yourself with actionable knowledge.

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Bring Out Her Inner Slut

Attraction is not a choice

A wise man once taught me “attraction is not a choice”.

And it’s absolutely the truth.

A woman does not get to choose who she is attracted to…

…Her emotions choose for her.

It’s NOT logical.

No man knows this instinctively.

It’s one of the key things I need to get my students to unlearn.

It’s the foundation of why I teach guys to develop social skills.

If, as a guy, you’re looking for a “logical” reason that a girl should be into you, then trust me:

You’re wasting your time.

The truth is, most of the time there is no “reason” why a girl wants a guy.

Her emotions are running the show. Period.


This is great news for you.


Because if you can make her feel the right emotions at the right times…

Then she’s pretty much yours.

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Single biggest mistake guys make with hot girls

You want to know what is the single biggest mistake guys make with hot girls?

They judge her solely on her good looks.

There’s no point in pursuing a woman who looks like Taylor Swift, but has the personality of Miss Piggy.

You see, unlike 99% of guys, I’m not genuinely attracted to ANY woman until I’ve already talked to her for a while.

Here’s why…

Many of hot women are undesirable (for reasons other than what they look like).

So if you’re a guy who sees a woman and starts feeling all kinds of emotions for her before even talking to her, you’re on the wrong track.

You MUST evaluate a woman on more than just looks…

Because if you can resist the urge to put her on a pedestal right away, it will solve a lot of your self-talk issues INSTANTLY.

Here’s how I tackle it…

In my mind, before approaching a woman, I feel that I’m walking into an unknown situation. I have no idea if she’s an amazing person… or a complete disaster.

My intention is to run her through a series of conversational tests where she’ll be FORCED to show her true colors as fast as possible.

Once I’ve gathered this information I’ll know if she has what I’m looking for. Then I’ll decide if I like her or not, and if I want to take it further.

I’m in full control from start to finish.

This process has served me well for years, and there’s no reason why it can’t work for you as well.

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