Today I wanted to teach you a little bit about setting up dates the right way…
Guys tend to massively underrate the importance of dates. What they don’t realize is that the FASTEST way to get laid more is to become a better date.
But before you can become a better date, you have to learn to set up dates in a way that girls will ACTUALLY show up for them!
Every guy out there has been talking to a girl and said something like “We should hang out sometime, give me your number.”
While this better than nothing and can work when the girl is really into you, it’s still not a great way to set up a date.
Instead, what you want to do is have a set date that you ALWAYS invite girls out on.
That’s right, this is one of those places where “routines” can really help you.
Not only should you have a set date that you always invite girls on, you should also have a set story to introduce said date.
Here’s an example I used to use:
“Have you ever been to Cork? They have really cool wine tastings every Wednesday. My friends and I like to go there for every week. We always have a crazy time, plus they have really good tapas. And they give you free wine! It’s always one of the best days of the week!”
Here I’m overselling, but bear with me…
If you oversell the place without inviting her, it seems like the place is legitimately cool. If you oversell it while you’re inviting her, it looks like you’re trying too hard to IMPRESS her.
After you’ve “seeded” the idea of what you’re going to do, it’s time to invite her to come with you. There are two different schools of thought on how to invite the girl out.
There’s the old school “High Value” tactic of inviting a girl to “come tag along” with something you’re already doing. This should be used when you’re not sure if it’s really “on” or not with party girls.
Then there’s the idea of showing GENUINE interest in seeing her specifically again. That’s where you say something like “I really want to bring you with me next week.”
“I think it would be really fun for you to come with me.” This should be used when it seems like the girl is really into you or when the girl is a little more down to Earth.
Lastly you want to say something simple like “Ok give me your number and we’ll figure out driving and stuff.”
And Voila you have set up a date.
Now you just need to know what to do on the date.
P.S. That’s how you set up a solid date. But you want to make sure you’re doing this with a girl who doesn’t flake.