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Category: Dating

EXPOSED — 3 Lies About Dating 95% of guys believe

Yesterday I heard a story about an old man in his 70’s getting hot younger women in their 20’s and 30’s…

It definitely breaks the common dating “myth” that you have to be young, handsome and rich to get women.

Sure, those things help, but that’s NOT the whole story.

Here are a few examples of “myths” that go unquestioned and unchallenged by the slumbering, mediocre masses:

MYTHS:

– The hottest women won’t talk to you unless you’re handsome or rich, because they are only attracted to superficial things.

– Pickup lines don’t ever work on women, no matter what

– Old guys are creepy to women and can never date younger girls

That last one really makes me smile. I used to believe it 100%, but it couldn’t be more WRONG!

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The real reason romance novels sell so well

As men, we are visual creatures. We are aroused mentally.

When we see a hot woman in yoga pants at Whole Foods, we turn our heads.

A lot of men when they are seeking extra stimulation turn to porn.

Women, on the other hand, read 400-page romance novels. Romance novels are sexual entertainment for women. It is all about emotions and shared experiences. It gives them the chance to live the life they really want to live vicariously.

The people who understand the love affair that women have with romance are the authors of romance novels.

Nineteen leading romance novel authors contributed to a book called “Dangerous Men and Adventurous Women,” edited by Jayne Ann Krentz, University of Pennsylvania Press, 1992. It is a collection of essays describing the appeal of the romance novel.

It is fascinating and very enlightening.

Romance novels account for half of all book sales. Because women love them so much, I was curious about two things: what do women find so fascinating in the men featured in the books, and what is the psyche of the women readers?

This book would lead me to believe that what women admire in themselves is courage. Both of these manifest themselves or are played out, in her making a dangerous man fall in love with her.

The plot: victory for her is in teaching him to love.

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“Heroes who are gentled by love yet who lose none of their warrior qualities in the process, and heroines who conquer devils without sacrificing their femininity.

It requires that the hero acknowledge the heroine’s heroic qualities in both masculine and feminine terms. He must recognize and admire her sense of honor, courage, and determination, as well as her traditionally female qualities of gentleness and compassion.

It also requires a sexual bonding that transcends the physical, a bond that reader and writer know can never be broken.”

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And the male lead in the story?

A warrior to be tamed. The romantic hero is a leader-strong intelligent, untamed, tough, courageous, cynical, macho and dangerous.

Yet, he is communicative and, deep down, is susceptible to succumbing to the vulnerabilities of deep love.

She is a woman of intelligence, integrity, loyalty, faith, confidence, but above all courage. She conquers every challenge, the most difficult of which is taming the hero.

Sex in the romance novel is a celebration of the bond created between the heroine and the hero.

He also happens to be wonderful in bed. It is a given that a woman is entitled to sexual satisfaction and that a real man can’t be fulfilled unless his partner is also fulfilled.

The romance novel fills a woman’s need to learn to love herself.

In reading it, the woman escapes into a fantasy world where she can be everything she has always wanted to be and feel everything she has always wanted to feel with the security of knowing that there will be a happy ending.

If the romance novel teaches a woman to love anybody, the person she must learn to love is herself.

And there you have, in a nutshell, the emotional needs of all women in a romantic sense.

I could have charged a thousand dollars for the information in this email. Read it over and over and internalize it.

When you understand her psyche and what she needs, you will have the correct instincts.

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Bring Out Her Inner Slut

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Tired Of Being The First One To Text?

It’s amazing how egos get in the way when it comes to dating. And one place where this really becomes evident is with text messaging.

Just think of the last girl you texted. A girl you either wanted to hook up with or date seriously.

I bet there were many times where you totally ignored her on purpose. Where you refused to send her a text. Even though you were DYING to hear from her.

Why’d you do it? PRIDE. You wanted her to text you first. Just to give you a sign that she was thinking of you.

But that text never came. And you never texted her. So what happened? NOTHING.

You never spoke again. And to this day, you probably still think about her.

Well I can eliminate that silly pride game from your life. And I can also get you the girl.

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Women love dominance and dirty talk

All of my experience going back to the early 1990’s points to the overwhelming reality that women love to be talked dirty to and they love to be dominated.

That’s why they so often fall for Bad Boys. The Bad Boy is the only place most women can even come close to getting that scratch itched.

I set out to do better.

I was a respectful gentleman outside the bedroom, but I was always pushing the envelope to see how very naughty I could make them be.

I would make up naughty fantasies and say all kind of crazy shit.

I would make a fantasy scenario where she is a very naughty little schoolgirl who was caught masturbating, and I am the mean, disciplinarian principal.

I would spank her and tell her how naughty she is and that she needs to be disciplined. “You’re being very naughty! You will learn to be a good girl! You are being so naughty, but you want to be a good girl! Come like a good girl!”

This would consistently result in powerful orgasms.

One woman I dated was the executive assistant for the president of a huge corporation. She was very proper and conservative and wore Liz Claiborne suits. She owned a condo on a lake.

I would take her out to the beach and fuck her on the picnic table where anyone with binoculars could see. I told her, “You love getting fucked where everyone can see you. You are so very naughty!”

Then, I brought her into her condo and fucked her in every room of her house, while telling her, “You love to get fucked! You can’t get fucked enough!” She would almost lose consciousness with the long string of orgasms.

Women love to be naughty!

I had also read stories about women being tied up, so I tried that.

I would tie her hands to the bedposts so that her arms were outstretched and she was restrained to the bed, unable to get away.

Then, I’d remind her how she is so very helpless and that I intended to do with her as I pleased and have my way with her.

Then, I’d tease her with oral stimulation and hold her right on the edge. Then, I’d ravish her by fucking her hard, which always resulted in spectacular orgasms.

They loved it!

They still love it. They will always love it.

Life is good, you can dominate women and have a great time. You just need actually to get out and do it!

By David Shade

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Bring Out Her Inner Slut

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So, are men and women really equal?

Here is an email from a man in Sweden:

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“My mother has always been a woman who commanded respect and insisted on being treated equally. (Note: She was a Daddy’s girl. That is a good thing.)

She and my father have always had a wonderful relationship.

They raised my sister to also command respect, which she most certainly does. (Note: She is also a Daddy’s girl.)

My parents raised me to treat people with respect. They taught me that I am accountable for my own actions. I have them to thank for a loving, functional, and healthy upbringing.

But to be totally pragmatic and realistic, for the sake of a successful and exciting sexual relationship between a man and a woman, there are certain everlasting truths that must be recognized.”

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Yes, you are right, there ARE certain everlasting truths that must be recognized.

While men and women are most certainly equal in terms of deserving respect and consideration, they are not THE SAME.

Women are feminine. Men are masculine.

Women like being women and they like the contrast.

Men like being men and also like the contrast.

Part of being feminine, for most women, is to be sexually submissive.

Part of being masculine, for most men, is to lead sexually.

For the most part, women experience their sexuality in the context of the man leading.

Is that equal?

It is not exactly “equal,” it is instead “complimentary.” The important thing is that it is a consensual assumption of roles in the context of mutual respect.

Interestingly, that’s the situation in which most couples experience fulfilling sexual relationships.

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Be The Fucking Man

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Can You Be A Player Past 30?

There are two things that happen when a guy thinks he’s too “old” to attract younger chicks:

1. He quits going after them altogether.

2. He becomes a sugar daddy.

Now quitters NEVER win, so #1 is a no-no. But #2 is even WORSE!

Do you seriously think it’s “manly” to pay a girl’s bills just to get some nookie? Hell NO.

She will NOT respect you and she’ll suck every penny out of your bank account! So throw that option out the window too.

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Next time you approach a gorgeous woman…

Here’s how it’s going to go down the next time you approach a gorgeous woman:

You look her dead in the eyes with blazing desire…

Walk up with balls of steel…

And confidently introduce yourself.

No more being frozen, worried about saying something stupid, or what others think of you.

And because you’ve REPLACED your nerves, fear, and anxiety with a killer instinct that makes sure you nail every step of the approach…

She stares at you in awe, then giggles and melts in front of you…

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The 3 Types of Attraction

When it comes to attraction, I break it down into 3 KEY types.

I was out with few of my friends recently and I was paying attention to how they interacted with women.

When it came to trying to attract them, these guys were all about impressing women with their “value”. And it got me thinking.

Showing a woman your value is great, but there’s much more powerful tools for attraction. Much more powerful.

So here are the 3 KEY types of attraction.

Here they are:

1) Value based:

Value based attraction is based on what “value you have” intrinsically or provide the girl. Are you rich? Are you famous? Are you good looking? Are you just inherently confident?

All of this stuff creates a picture in her mind of what kind a man you are as an “offer” to her.

This is why it’s so IMPORTANT to take care of yourself. The more you do that, the more value you have to women.

This is what my friends were trying to convey by trying to impress women. In reality, all of this is done non-verbally. By your looks, your style, and most of all your behavior. In particular your social dominance.

But that’s a whole other email.

2) Emotional:

Emotional attraction is a reflection of the attraction based on the emotional situation. It reflects feelings, but it’s transient. It’s based on how she feels at THAT moment.

So she might really “like you” one night, but the next day feel like crap and not be as interested.

However, if you share a genuine emotional attraction with a girl – it carries over multiple days, weeks, and even years.

If a girl feels an emotional connection with you, you’ll have a HUGE advantage over every single other guy out there.

3) Sexual attraction:

Sexual attraction is an unconscious and physical process that cannot be stopped. It supersedes the other two and is extremely powerful.

Like emotional attraction it is completely irrational – but if you want to have sex with women, you HAVE to hit sexual attraction.

However, by hitting sexual attraction too soon or too desperately you are going to get blown out for being sexually pushy and needy. There is NOTHING less attractive to a woman than neediness.

You have to learn how to balance being “sexually aggressive” (good) to sexual pushy (bad). A lot of this comes down to reading her body language. The rest comes from experience.

You gotta go and get rejected a lot. Get real world experience, and all of the above will make more sense.

A tip: Get yourself a sexual stereotype early on. By this I mean dress in a certain type of way that is extremely attractive to certain women (ideally the ones you’re into). This can be a biker, a rocker, a suit – whatever you want.

It’ll help a lot. Women will be far more responsive to you on all 3 levels.

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Getting her to feel what you want her to

You want to learn women inside and out?

Ask them questions and then really listen.

I mean really listen. Don’t just wait for your turn to speak.

Ask them, “What do you really want in a man?” They would describe, or at least try to describe, what they wanted to the best of their ability. Often, they don’t really know themselves; they just know what they wanted to feel.

The important thing is that they start to feel those feelings.

Then ask, “How would it make you feel to be with such a man?” They would describe that. In order to do so, they had to imagine feeling it. This causes them to actually begin to feel those feelings and imagine that they were really with that man.

Because they are talking to you and have rapport with you, those feelings get associated to you on a subconscious level. They do not realize this on a conscious level.
Be genuinely interested in what they think and make it a point to demonstrate that you are good listener. And they open up about what they would really like to have-in other words, what they fantasized about on an emotional and relationship basis.

When they are basking in a flood of good emotions and feelings, which are all connected to you, ramp that up.

After having established an emotional connection with them that allowed them to feel very close to you, leveraged that to move the conversation in a romantic direction.

Guiding a woman’s feelings and turning things sexual can really be that simple.

That simple.

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Do Girls Send You Nude Selfies?

What’s your text game like?

Can you get her to respond every time?

Does she flirt?

Does she send you naked selfies?

Message a girl the right way and she’ll do all of this and more.

But what if you suck at stringing texts together that get these kind of results?

Simple. Get some word for word texts templates PROVEN to turn your phone into a MAGNET for dirty selfies.

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