Are you asking me to make out with you…

So chicks are positively responding to your new way of being.

You are out there, being this new you… and all of the sudden “weird” things are starting to happen.

The thing is… you are used to failing, so you often don’t recognize whether it’s actual interest or not.

Sometimes she is vague and you really can’t tell if she is hitting on you or not.

You don’t know what to do (or who to be) …so you often end up letting the moment pass …and hand back all the power to her immediately.

Here’s a very quick way to find out:

Just ask her a question such as:

‘Are you asking me out?’

‘Are you hitting on me?’

‘Are you asking me to make out with you in the bathroom?’

‘Are you asking me to come home with you?’

It requires a simple yes or no answer …and …at least you’ll know where things stand right away.

What if she says, ‘No’?

Just say, ‘Okay, cool. Come find me when you are.’

Then, move on.

Actually, you can use these questions in response to anything she will say to you, even if it’s obvious that she’s not hitting on you.

Remember, it’s about having fun. 🙂

Want more rock-solid dating advice?

If you are not getting the results you want right now, you have TWO choices:

1. Keep doing what you are doing and wasting your life.


2. Try something new.

Just don’t expect things to somehow “magically” change for you all of a sudden because you want results.

Ok, so you might be reading this right now, and you’re probably wondering…

“What’s The Best Way For Me to REALLY Learn This Stuff?”

Hey, I’m glad you asked.

Success with women really comes down to learning a new way to think about women, then combining it with the actual techniques that cause women to feel that magical emotion called ATTRACTION.

If you’re ready for SUPER success with women, then I highly recommend that you go download my online ebook “Attract Hotter Women.“

It’s JAM PACKED with ideas that you can learn and use starting TONIGHT. You can go download it right now and be reading it within just a few minutes.

Download it here:

…to get it.

This material isn’t taught anywhere else.

It’s the best investment you can make in your dating life, period… end of story.

Bottom line: Go get your copy.

And I’ll talk to you again in a couple of days.


P.S. If you want more “come backs” to beat all of her tests, be sure to study the book:


In the next 8 hours, you could meet a new woman …

In the next 8 hours, you could meet a new woman …

Yes, you read that correctly.

And no, I’m not kitten you right meow.

Imagine this…

It’s Saturday afternoon, and three girls are sitting at brunch, drinking mimosas and talking about last night.

They’re slightly tipsy and doing what most women do at brunch these days… bitching about men on Tinder.


A girl’s cell phone vibrates, and they all look at her, waiting to see her reaction.

“Ugh, I can’t believe all these guys say the exact same thing…” she says, and she puts her phone back down in disappointment.

[Lesson – if your first message on Tinder sounds like every other guy, you’re already dead in the water. Avoid boring messages like “hi,” and avoid cheesy lines that look like you cut/pasted from a meme website]


Another girl’s phone goes off, and she looks at the message.

“Ah… he’s such a nice guy, but… come on. Why doesn’t he get it yet? I’m not gonna sleep with him but he WON’T stop texting me…”

Her friends all smile in understanding. They’ve all been there…

[Lesson – don’t send a barrage of messages to a girl you like. Be brief, playful, and push for the meetup where you can escalate physically. If it hasn’t happened yet… your odds are getting lower by the minute.]


The third girl’s phone goes off. She picks it up, and a sly smile crosses her lips…

The girls all start giggling like crazy.

“Who is that?”

“Let me see!”

“That is so hot…”

“What should we text him back?”

Together, they come up with a flirty response to this guy – our hero – and send it back.


He sends another message and the girls squeal in delight.

“He wants to hang out tonight,” she says. “What should I say?”

And her friends basically force her to say yes.

“Omg, say yes, he’s so funny…”

“You should definitely meet him for drinks…”

“If you don’t meet up with this guy, I will…”

You, my man, are the hero in this story.

You have now positioned yourself at the top of her “Tinder totem pole” – you’re the top priority on her mind, and every other guy is beneath you.

But the sad part is, a majority of men never make it there, and they lose a ton of interested girls because they fall into the “average guy” category and get ignored.

Click to learn more…

I cannot possibly make it easier for you to succeed

Once you know how to spark emotions and get numbers …

You can cut through the clutter in her phone and be the hero who gets her (and all her girlfriends) drooling over what you say next.

All that’s left to do is capitalize and get her out on a date ASAP.

Click to learn more…


Say THIS to Spark her Sexual Interest

So you’re talking to a girl and it’s going well… you have things in common… you’re connecting…

Great. But how do you take things in a sexual direction?

Because you know that if you don’t… if you talk forever and never get sexual… then you’re just gonna be a friend to her.

And if that’s what you want, fine… but if you want to be “more than friends,” then you need to say something in conversation to spark her emotion and turn her on.

You can’t play it safe here, you gotta go “balls to the wall.”

Here’s the #1 conversation technique to spark her sexual interest:

Breaking rapport.

You have “rapport” when everything is going well… you’re getting along… she’s smiling and enjoying herself…

And if you keep going down that road, “rapport” is all you’re gonna have.

Instead, you wanna say something to “break” rapport… to push her away and get her fired up.

The key is to do it playfully, never seriously.

For example:

“You know what, you’re gonna get me in trouble… I can’t be seen talking to you anymore.”

“Look, I’m an asshole, you don’t wanna talk to me. Why don’t you go over there and talk to that super sweet nice guy, he looks perfect for you.”

“You are such a brat… isn’t it past your bedtime? Do I need to call your parents?”

Push her away with playful little statements like that.

Never let her settle in and get comfortable – that’s the kiss of death if you want to sleep with her.

Keep her on her toes, keep her guessing, keep her working for your approval.

Now, you might be thinking… “I’m not ballsy enough or clever enough to pull this off.”

Not true! Just tease her like you used to when you were 6 years old at recess… it’s so easy a child could do it.


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Your next Tinder date

If you’d like to have a steady stream of gorgeous new women flowing straight into your bedroom…

Without having to go out to bars, spend money or risk rejection…

Then read the rest of this email very carefully.

Because right now, as you’re reading this, a TRAGIC scene is unfolding in your city!

A normal, well-intentioned guy just like yourself is about to do something really stupid.

Just 30 minutes ago, this guy was laughing and enjoying himself at dinner with his friends…

Now, he’s on his way to a dreadful place.

Pray for him, my friend, for he is about to enter the dark, soulless, beer-stained abyss of a trendy bar.

You know the drill…

You put on your best “going out to get laid” shirt…

You stand in line for overpriced drinks (because you’re not gonna talk to girls sober, duh)…

You scan the room for attractive girls who might be worth the effort…

And even if you’re lucky enough to find the perfect girl for you, she’s almost always with other guys…

Or, she’s got her guard WAY up, and she’s ready to reject any guy who even remotely looks like he’s trying to pick her up…

And it’s so LOUD, and so dark, and you can’t come up with anything good to say anyways…

So you wind up standing around drinking with the same people you came with…

Then going home drunk, empty handed and $100 poorer.

Does that sound like any fun at all? Of course not!

So why do so many guys still do it?

Especially when there’s a much better way to get hot girls these days…

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When you click the link above, you’ll discover a crazy secret I learned about female attraction…

A secret that had 209 gorgeous women LINING UP to talk to me… in just one short weekend!

Now before I leave to go on my next Tinder date, I must admit something embarrassing …

I can be very absent minded at times. I once booked a plane ticket to the wrong city and didn’t realize it until I was at the airport lol.

Once you understand how it all works, your dating life is gonna get a LOT easier… and a LOT more interesting.

Get excited!

Talk soon

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Imagine a room of 300 women… screaming and cheering for a guy…

Imagine a room of 300 women… screaming & cheering for a guy…

We know one thing for sure: that guy is getting laid at the end of the night. Maybe twice.

Well I know one such guy.

Eric von Sydow

(I don’t even hesitate to believe this claim. At 44 years old, he lives with 3 women in San Diego and they’re all gorgeous.)

As you’d expect, being a male stripper, Eric has discovered “a thing or two” about pleasing a woman…

And now he’s finally revealing his secrets to pleasing a woman right here in this tutorial:

Discover the astonishing lovemaking techniques of a male stripper who slept with 1000+ women.

I don’t want to spoil the video… though one technique I LOVE is the “Pubic Bone Humming” technique…

Eric says when you’re giving a girl oral pleasure, if you rest your nose on her pubic bone and hum, the vibrations send waves of pleasure deep inside her. (Cool, right?)

And “talking” a woman to big-O without even touching her? That’s badass.

There are so many techniques in this video — ones that almost no guy on the planet knows, so this’ll give a huge edge over other guys.

You’ll really love this tutorial, go check it out here:

Click to learn more…

There is no reason any guy should have to go without…

Sometimes girls just want to get physical.

It could be because of stress from work.

Maybe she just broke up with a guy.

Maybe it’s the “right time of the month.”

And she’s just looking for a man to have some fun, casual, no-strings-attached sex with!

She’ll eagerly take the first guy who notices.

All you need to do is look for the RIGHT signals and DON’T MESS IT UP!

If it’s been a while since your hotdog has been inside a nice pair of buns…

There is no reason any guy should have to go without sex for more than 3 WEEKS MAX!

Even if you’re not rich or young or good looking.

Just take a shower, buy some mouthwash and do what works!

Click to learn more…

Why they flake on you..

You’re a good looking guy, have great hair, hip clothes, flashy car, you’re successful in business and you know all the right people… you even have
no noticeable, nervous twitching.

Let’s say that none of this is over the top and you’re not using all these things as crutches.

Basically, you think you have your act together.

So why do you still have problems attracting women, holding the attraction and getting them not to flake?

Even after they’ve shown initial interest by approaching you, telling you they’re
interested and getting together with you for mind-blowing physical activity?

I bet you never thought you might have it TOO together for them

Here’s what I mean:

You might be too perfect.

Chicks want to nurture and fix you.

When they’re with you they try to imagine where they would fit into your life and what they would help you with.

You’ve provided them with nothing to fix…

You are ALREADY fixed.

And then there’s the other thing you might be doing…

You might also be doing something relationship oriented that’s giving them the ‘go signal’ to have those thoughts in the first place.

They RARELY do that with me.

They know the deal and don’t consider any other possibilities.

Here are a couple of other reasons directly from chicks:

‘You are a good looking guy, its because we’re afraid we’ll get hurt, its a defense mechanism we have because we have been burned so many times.’

‘I really like you and I like being around you, but I am moving so I am trying my best NOT to see you, I am sorry I am just scared.’

Believe it.

This is not a lack of attraction but you might be scaring them… they’re actually intimidated by you… which is crazy if you think about it.

All this time you actually had higher status.

The good news is that you’re much more powerful and attractive than you originally thought.

It makes total sense that they would fear you.

Remember, the hotter they are, the lower their self-esteem and the average looking men they date cheat on them less (they think).

Whereas with you, they assume that every chick feels as THEY do around you so you must get physical with all of them and they’re threatened by this.

What to do?

Relax a little

Go out looking a little like you just got out of bed once in a while.

Don’t worry about being too perfect.

Give her something to fix. 🙂

Want more rock-solid dating advice?

If you’re not getting the results you want right now, you have TWO choices:

1. Keep doing what you’re doing.


2. Try something new.

Just don’t expect things to magically change for you all of a sudden because you want results.

Ok, so you might be reading this right now, and you’re probably wondering…

“What’s The Best Way For Me to REALLY Learn This Stuff?”

Hey, I’m glad you asked.

Success with women really comes down to learning a new way to think about women, then combining it with the actual techniques that cause women to feel that magical emotion called ATTRACTION.

If you’re ready for SUPER success with women, then I highly recommend that you go download my online ebook “Attract Hotter Women.“

It’s JAM PACKED with ideas that you can learn and use starting TONIGHT. You can go download it right now and be reading it within just a few minutes.

Download it here:

…to get it.

This material isn’t taught anywhere else.

It’s the best investment you can make in your dating life, period… end of story.

Bottom line: Go get your copy.

And I’ll talk to you again in a couple of days.


P.S. If you want more “come backs” to beat all of her tests, be sure to study the book:


9 Ways to Start a Conversation With Nearly Any Woman

I remember the days when I’d feel “desperate” to meet women.

I’d head out to a bar or the gym to try… and I’d try everything:

Making eye contact…

Having a conversation…

Hell, I even tried dancing.

But no matter what… it never went well.

Why? Because women can “smell” desperation like that. And as you may have guessed, it’s not the most attractive scent us guys can wear.

But today, I want to talk about something else — I want to show you how to get to know a woman with no subtext, pretense, or expectations.

Why would you want to do that?

Because the truth is, the best way to pick up a woman is by NOT picking her up at all.

What Happens When You “Try Too Hard” With a New Woman?
That may sound circular, but it’s the truth. Here’s what happens:

When you try too hard to pick up a lady, it’s obvious — even to someone who’s not particularly clever or smart.

What’s worse, when a woman picks up on the fact that you’re trying to pick her up, it can very easily make her uncomfortable or defensive.

On the other hand, when you find yourself in a social setting with a woman and you engage her for no reason other than simply being social, the possibilities are endless.

Yes, sex is always one of the potential outcomes — I’m not saying it shouldn’t be on your mind.

However, it can’t be your goal.

So what do you do?

I’ve got 9 different ways to start a conversation with a woman without coming off as “desperate,” and they’re all based on proof and my own experience.

I’ll begin with the most basic strategies and together, we’ll work our way up to the most advanced ones.

Strategies 1-3: Preparation-Based
The first few strategies begin with preparing yourself to go out and approach a woman.

Because for many men, the key to having a successful night out is to be in the right mindset.

1) Be Genuine
Being genuine should not be hard — in fact, it should take no effort at all.

I know it sounds cliche to “be yourself,” but honestly it’s what you have to do. Simply refuse to put on a “persona” that you think the ladies will like.

This is a crucial step because if you “fake it” and meet a woman who likes you back, she’s going to feel lied to when she discovers you were putting on some sort of act.

2) Make a List
Another easy way to start a conversation with a new woman is to keep a list of conversation starters and stay up to date with it.

You don’t have to carry it around with you, but you should update it often. Make sure the topics on your list are of general interest and are things you are genuinely interested in.

Do you like movies, TV shows, or comedy, for example? These are all good topics to talk about with a woman you just met!

And once the conversation has started, it should flow organically, and you likely won’t have to worry about the list again — until the next time.

3) Practice in The Mirror
Finally, this might sound silly, but practice looking relaxed and pleasant in the mirror.

Seriously. Relax your jaw and brow muscles — maybe even smile a little.

This will make you look approachable and friendly. If you look tense or preoccupied, you could miss opportunities to connect with women.

Remember, your goal here is simply to meet and talk with women. That’s it.

Strategies 4-7: Approach-Based
My next few strategies focus on the actual approach.

So once you’re out at a bar (or a club, or a restaurant or whatever)… here are a few more things you can try:

4) Make Casual Eye Contact
The easiest first step to meeting a new woman is to try to make eye contact with her.

Just try and catch a glance — make sure not to stare. Staring usually comes off as creepy.

And when you do meet her gaze, what should you do from there?

5) Smile (& Observe Her Response)
Once she’s looking at you, give her a small smile. This shows her that you’re noticing her and that you’re interested in talking to her.

If she smiles back (and she’s not otherwise engaged), it’s basically a sure sign she wants you to approach her.

And if she doesn’t smile?

Just find a new woman to make eye contact with.

6) Look for Avoidant Behavior
This next strategy is more about identifying the women you shouldn’t approach.

A lot of guys make the mistake of randomly approaching women and expecting the same response every time.

In public, you can’t be sure what a woman is doing — if she’s busy, upset, or is actually looking to meet a guy like you.

So it’s important to watch out for a few key behaviors she doesn’t want to be approached.

Here are a few tips:

If she seems to be talking intently with another person, don’t interrupt…
Public transportation is not always a great place to start a conversation, approach with caution…
Do not ask a woman to remove her headphones. On the train, at the gym, on the street, wherever. If she wants to talk to you, she’ll take them out of her own accord…
If a lady doesn’t want to talk, simply smile, apologize for interrupting, and wish her good day/evening/weekend, whatever. Forcing a conversation on an unwilling partner is a waste of your time and won’t end well…
It’s important to learn to read the settings and the signs.

That’s Not All…
Every woman and every situation are going to be different, so you have to get out there and get some experience.

It sounds hard, but I promise it gets easier with practice. 🙂

Which brings me to my next strategy…

7) Don’t Make Assumptions
Getting comfortable with and good at speaking with women is all about on-the-job-training: The more you do it, the better you’ll get.

While every conversation you have with a woman has the potential to lead to something more, you have to assume the opposite.

Start a conversation simply for the sake of having a conversation. It’s a reward unto itself.

This even applies to dates from apps and websites.

For example, not every first date is going to lead to sex or even a second date.

So, don’t approach her with the expectation of sex. Instead, relax and try to learn something about her.

Strategies 8-9: Conversation-Based
Finally, my last two strategies are all about what you say to her once you’ve approached (or she’s approached you).

They’re simple, but they’re effective ways to truly escalate your first interaction with a woman, so it goes the way you want.

8) Ask Questions & Listen
This might seem obvious, but ask her questions about herself!

And don’t just ask — listen to her answers, too.

From there, you can ask her follow-up questions. And look, you’re having an effortless conversation. 🙂

But what about going from an effortless conversation… to going back to your place?

Is there an easy way to make that happen?

In my experience, yes… and here’s how I discovered it:

9) Turn Things Sexual (& Get Her to Come Home With You)…
The other day, I was thinking:

“Why do some girls come home with me the first night I meet them, and others don’t…?

What’s the difference between ‘Let’s share a cab’ and ‘I have a morning meeting…maybe next time?’”

I thought about the past dozen or so one times a girl’s come home with me… and that’s when it hit me:

When I’m sitting next to a woman… and we’ve been talking for a few (like 5-15) minutes… there’s always a certain point when I have to decide:

“Am I gonna put my hand on her leg… or not?”

And you know what, when I do decide to go for it… and touch her like this… that’s what makes the difference.

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7 Signs She’s Playing You For A FOOL

If you ran a poll and asked guys what they hate most about dating, many would say this:

The lack of control.

It’s as if women control everything. That you not only have to initiate contact, but at any moment they can reject you simply because they have so many suitors.

This obviously inflates their ego and gives them a ton of power. And you probably learned this the hard way by getting played instead of getting laid.

Don’t feel bad. It’s happened to me several times. Situations where I sat there thinking everything was great when she either had another guy on the side or simply used me to boost her confidence.

Luckily, I discovered a new and simple way to take control out of women’s hands and put it into yours.

I’ll reveal it in a second. Right now though, let’s look at several signs that say one thing:

She’s playing you for a FOOL.

1. She never takes pictures with you – If she does, she’ll ruin her chances with the other guys she’s seeing. Hell, she may even be embarrassed of you and is just using you for money or something else.

2. She blows you off – Every time you’re about to go on a date, she has a new excuse. If she really wanted to see you, there would be no excuses.

3. You never meet her friends or family – It’s normal for this to take time. If you’ve been going out for a while though, important people in her life should know about you.

4. She says “I” instead of “we” – Saying “we” when talking about her future implies she wants you to be a part of it. Saying “I” implies that you’re not part of her plans.

5. Nothing is sexual – This is 2018 where things move a lot faster. No kissing, touching, or intercourse? She’s probably not attracted to you and sees you as a friend or some type of sugar daddy.

6. She flirts with other guys – Whether it’s in front of you, on social media, or anywhere else, this is a solid sign that she’s not serious about you and doesn’t even give a damn about your feelings.

7. She still talks to and about her ex – They flirt on social media. He calls and texts her. She tells you about their history and how important he was. Yep – she’s waiting on him to come back into her life and replace you with the quickness. Congrats on being the rebound guy!

I’m sure you’ve had women play with you like that in the past. And whether it took time to notice or you saw it from the start, it probably ticked you off.

What’s the best way to avoid this?

Click to learn more…

The difference that makes the difference

Indifference (the difference that makes the difference)
1: unbiased impartial unconcern

2: apathy demonstrated by an absence of emotional reactions [syn: emotionlessness, impassivity, impassiveness, phlegm, stolidity,

3: the trait of lacking enthusiasm for or interest in things generally [syn: apathy, spiritlessness]

4: the trait of remaining calm and seeming not to care; a casual lack of concern [syn: nonchalance, unconcern]

“Indifference is the strongest force in the universe. It makes everything it touches meaningless. Love and hate don’t stand a chance against it.”
– Joan Vinge

This is my favorite subject.

I’ve always said that if men would master this ONE thing, they would no longer have ANY problems with chicks…


It would change the entire world of dating overnight.


This is one of THE most important techniques in creating attraction.

(Just my humble opinion)

When used properly, it drives chicks absolutely crazy.

It’s the,

“I don’t really care…”


“I’m not attached to the outcome…”

frame of mind that they’re attracted to.

Unlike everyone else they meet, you seem like you don’t have a care in the world.

Being a little indifferent is actually healthy for you too.

You avoid most of the peaks of life and the unproductive emotions that usually sidetrack you.

In fact, you’ll be able to turn your emotions on and off like a light switch…

Living a pretty smooth, drama free life.

Indifference causes her to feel comfortable with you.

It’s a “push-pull” type of thing.

You’re not pushing (like 99% of the guys she’s meeting)…

And this naturally makes her curious and pulls her in.

You want to use the word ‘Maybe’ and the phrase “we’ll talk about” when speaking to her.


“Maybe we’ll get together…”

“Maybe we’ll have drinks…”

“Maybe you can meet us later…”

There’s enough yes in maybe for you to seem indifferent, yet interested…

And enough to appear as a challenge – just slightly out of her reach.

Saying “we’ll talk about…” is also effective.

Again, this is non-committal, yet alluring.


“Give me a call and we’ll talk about getting together sometime…”

Never agree to anything.

You are telling her that the two of you will discuss the next step, IF there is one.

You haven’t made a final decision or been convinced yet.

It’s just another way of conveying your power.

Be careful with indifference though.

You can become so good at it, that women will think they don’t have a chance with you.

Basically, you’ll be back in the same place you started.

If you want to get all of best thinking on what creates that magical thing called ATTRACTION inside of a woman, then…

You need to read eBook “Attract Hotter Women”.

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How to take things to a “physical” level…

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