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Category: Dating

“Attraction” is Highest the First Time

It’s all about the idea of striking while the iron is hot.

The reason being when you have good attraction game, you get the girl as attracted as she can be to someone in the first 10-15 minutes, you can only go two different routes:

1. You can lose attraction as no one (besides George Clooney) can sustain super high levels of emotional attraction that long.

It’s just the nature of emotions that they ebb and flow, which is THE major reason why there will always be a minimal amount of flaking even when setting everything up the right way.

Attraction is an emotion of wanting more of a person, place or thing. Like any emotion it dims over time through the very ethereal nature of emotions as a whole.

This why I always recommend getting sexual as fast as you can to SOLIDIFY the attraction she is feeling

2. The girl starts trying to play a longer term game as they see you as someone who she’s so attracted to that she needs to hold off and try to make you her boyfriend.

This is why guys with better attraction game tend to get more Last Minute Resistance and Player Vibe (especially for better looking guys) because they got the girl so attracted she either went past what she was comfortable with (if she was a more prude girl) or she went so fast that she needs to now balance the scales and get the guy to invest a little or she runs the risk of being pumped and dumped.

So how does this affect your game?

Well if you’re looking for a sexual relationship with a woman (and not the FRIEND ZONE), it means you need to do a few things when you see a girl get SUPER attracted to you (Wide huge smile, lots of touching, laughing at things that are not funny in any way, admitting attraction when you use cocky humor etc..)

P.S. Memorize the phrases “What are you up to Later?” and ” What do you have going on Tomorrow?”…

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The Secret To Making A Woman Want You!

Long before I ever learned how to attract women, I used to watch how those guys we call “Players” would walk into a room, leave with the woman of their choice, and make it look so damn easy.

I used to think to myself that it would be SO fantastic if I could do that… but I figured that these guys must be good looking or rich… or have some secret something that I didn’t have.

But later, after I learned the skill of meeting women, I realized that the most important thing they had that I didn’t was just that: the learn-able SKILL of knowing how to ATTRACT women.

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So here’s the bottom line:

If you don’t learn how to create attraction like I did, then you will just continue to beat your head against the wall your entire life and still not have any success.
Thing is, I also believe that you can learn FAST how to create powerful attraction in women.

I mean REAL fast.

And the fastest, simplest, most SUCCESS-PROVEN way for you to learn how to create MASSIVE ATTRACTION is to read my downloadable eBook called Attraction Isn’t A Choice.

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Make Her A Nymphomaniac

Today I’m going to share some psychological tips and hacks with you that will give you the power to be vastly more succesful with women.

The plain and simple truth about women: They NEED you.

Physically they WANT you inside of them.

And the only reason you’re not getting it right now is because you are approaching sex the completely wrong way.

At a primal level she is animalistic. Her basic instinct is to fcuk.

It’s in her DNA.

Just like you, she is a sexual creature that has a crazy, burning desire to be wanted by you.

Why don’t you make her desires a reality?

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Bring Out Her Inner Slut

3 of My Favorite Openers (TRY THESE)

How to “Indirectly” Open Girls You Want to Talk to…

I’m going to break down the advantages and disadvantages of opening indirectly.

First what is an “indirect opener”?

An indirect opener is an opener that does NOT explicitly convey interest in meeting the girl or group of people you are talking with.

This could range from something as innocuous as asking for the time or directions, to some of your longer, more usual PUA routines.

What are the advantages of opening indirectly?

The biggest advantage of opening indirectly is that you don’t trigger people’s AUTOPILOT responses to being approached.

Some girls are simply not particularly open to meeting new guys, and if you approach them directly they may blow you off.

However, by opening indirectly you can buy yourself an extra few minutes of time to convey your personality and demonstrate value.

Another advantage of opening indirectly, is that indirect openers are generally more interesting than direct openers.

Most indirect openers have at least 30 seconds of built in conversation.

This can be GREAT for beginners who have not yet developed their conversational repertoire.

The last advantage to opening indirectly is that it allows you to control the contingencies.

When you go out and run the same indirect opener over and over, you’ll notice that the same topics come up over and over again.

After awhile it can even seem like you’re able to PREDICT what the girls are going to say.

This can help you focus on your body language, the group dynamic, your spacial relevance, etc…

So what are the disadvantages of opening indirectly?

The first disadvantage of opening indirectly is that you don’t build any attraction with your opener.

There are some exceptions but for the most part an indirect opener is “neutral.”

You still have to do a lot of work to build attraction.

The second disadvantage of opening indirectly, is that you have to transition into a normal conversation.

Because you opened with an indirect opener, once you’re done with the opener you have to get into a normal conversation.

(Here’s my blueprint on opening and transitioning)

Otherwise you risk stalling out or coming off as “incongruent” since you stopped to ask them a specific question and then stuck around.

Now let’s move on to the CATEGORIES of indirect openers:

“Opinion Openers”: Opinion openers are the easiest way to open.

They have a very specific structure.

Let’s take a look at the structure using the classic Jealous Girlfriend opener by Style.

You first use a HOOK Question: The hook question is designed to get their attention and hook them into a conversation.

I.e. “Would you guys ever date someone who was still friends with their ex-girlfriend?”

The girls answer This part is important because you need the illusion of a two way conversation even when the contingencies aren’t going to change.

Remember no matter what the girls say here, it doesn’t affect what you’re going to do next.

Tease their answer and the reason you’re asking: Teases are important with opinion openers because you’re trying to play the role of “fun social, high value guy.”

“Ok mental note do not date this girl, but the reason I’m asking is because my friend (give a friend’s name) didn’t come out tonight because his girlfriend found a box of pictures and letters from his ex-girlfriend and totally freaked out! She told him he has to stop talking to her and burn the box. Is that like a normal (this city) girl response?”

Move forward into a normal conversation. Just know that you SHOULD not have a 20 minute conversation about jealous girlfriends…

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Here’s my favorite openers and how to transition into conversation easily
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Alright the second category of indirect openers are OBSERVATIONAL openers.

An “observational opener” involves making an observation about the girl or group.

Here’s one of my favorites, this is called the “I point out the obvious” openers.

Me: ” You’re wearing a vest!

Girl: uhhh

Me: “I point out the obvious it’s kinda my thing, so who are you?”

It’s that simple.

The last category of indirect openers I want to address are “Humorous High Value Openers.” These are any openers that are so over the top that only a high value guy would have the balls to use them.

An examples of this is one of my favorite openers created by myself and The Don.

“The Child Support Opener.”

“Hey guys, I have a REALLY important question. I have three child support payments due this week and I can only afford to pay one of them. Cause I like to go to the track.

Here’s the thing though I don’t want to pay my ex wife cause she’s a cunt. And the second girl is the mother of the third so if I pay one I have to pay the other. Plus my bastard kids don’t appreciate shit.”

The downside of all of these openers is that they can result in blowouts if people don’t get the joke. These are an example of high risk/high reward openers, and are not generally recommended for beginners.

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big problem?

Oftentimes I see guys get tested and you know what happens?

They push the nuclear button.

That’s their way of dealing with her bs.

These guys don’t want “the unnecessary drama” so they will go ballistic.

Please listen to me when I tell you, that is NOT effectively responding to her test.

If you don’t like unnecessary drama, stop doing things that create drama.

But guess what? She’s going to test you as well.

Especially if you look like a catch.

The only question is how do you handle it?

You can read how I handle them here.

Now look… I know some weirdo PUA “guru” guy is out there saying you have to set the girl straight.

You’re the “alpha male” and all that BS nonsense.

YAWN…

Do that and all you’re creating is drama for yourself.

Why?

Because she’ll NEVER comply.

She’s a female.

It’s in her DNA.

There’s a better way to deal with this situation:

GET HER TO LAUGH.

Not cry.

Not feel put down.

Do that and you not only pass her test but you’ll also have ratcheted up your value in her eyes.

Get it?

I hope so.

Now go here and learn how to do it:

No More Shit Tests

There are exact words there to say for every situation.

Let’s talk about “Romance”

In everything I do I assume you are trying to set the stage for a relationship, as opposed to a one night stand.

If you are just looking for one night stands, study pick up.

Today, in the spirit of fostering wonderfully sexual relationships, let’s talk about the magical word “Romance.”

Romance is the socially acceptable word for sexuality. In the context of romance, sexuality is socially acceptable. Think back to any wedding reception you’ve been to. Everybody thinks it’s so romantic. Even Grandma is happy. Everybody is celebrating. And when the bride and groom leave, everybody cheers them on.

What everybody knows, but nobody says, is that the bride and groom are going to go up to their room to FUCK! And it’s ok with everybody, even the government that gave them the license, even the priest that married them.

But you don’t have to get married to be romantic.

Women love romance. In the context of romance, they get everything they need. They get all the feelings they have always wanted to feel. They get the socially acceptable context in which to be sexual. And what they really want, but don’t say, is they want to FUCK!

And you don’t have to immediately promise a committed long term relationship to be romantic.

In fact, that would only scare her away. No woman wants a man to instantly fall in love with her just because they had sex. She does not want a man who will put her on a pedestal, or supplicate to her. That would be weak.

She wants a man who is strong. She wants a man that is masculine. It is attractive to her because it contrasts her femininity. It makes her feel like a woman.

And a woman does not want a man who is too mushy. But you can still be romantic and still be strong, with your own sense of self and with masculinity.

So, how to be romantic without being mushy?

Do little things. For example, while you and she are out, make a paper flower for her. You can do a search on the internet for how to turn an ordinary napkin into a beautiful rose. Recite a poem to her. Women love it. Women love romance.

Work on the romance and the sex will follow.

I’m telling you guys, stop thinking about getting to the sex so much. Think about her heart and her mind. Play to her emotions. You will be surprised at how appreciative they can be.

Be strong without being pushy. Stand up for yourself and what you believe, but also respect others and their views.

Be emotionally available without being needy. Talk about real interpersonal issues, but always remain self-assured. Ask her for advice on some deep issue. Listen when she speaks of her life.

Take an interest in her. Remember the things she says about herself and her life. Learn about her, learn what makes her tick.

You will use all of this later. The most important thing you can do for a woman is to understand her.

When you do that, he feels special, she feels emotionally connected to you, and that opens the floodgates for her to have romantic feelings for you.

You don’t have to touch a woman to give her an orgasm!

In many cases, it’s possible to give women orgasms over text or email.

Sexuality for women is all mental.

So how do you get into her head and her heart?

It’s all about doing these things:

1. Be dominant and provide leadership.

Women are sexually submissive creatures. They yearn to follow the lead of a dominant man. It’s programmed into their DNA.

2. Awaken her sexuality.

Women actually want to have sex. Women love sex. Women are far more sexual than men. You just have to speak their language, and that is the language of SEXUAL EMOTIONS.

Make her feel all the emotions a woman craves to feel. A woman wants to feel special, cherished, close, desired, womanly, feminine, beautiful, and sexy.

3. Lead her mind and her body will follow.

You don’t have to touch a woman to give her an orgasm. In fact, sometimes touching a woman doesn’t give her an orgasm. But touching her mind ALWAYS DOES.

4. Elicit sexual emotions without talking about sex, or mentioning body parts or sexual acts.

It is possible to give a woman an orgasm by eliciting sexual emotions alone. Find out exactly how to do it in “Give Women Hot Phone Sex.”

Sex is nothing but emotions. Period. Think of sex as a big theatre production. There’s a stage with scenery . There are actors. There are theatre props. And everybody in the audience is enjoying the play.

What are they enjoying? They are enjoying experiencing the emotions that are elicited by the plot in the story.

But they could still experience the emotions of the plot if there were no theatre props. They could still experience the emotions of the plot if there were no scenery. In fact, they could still experience the emotions of the plot if they were simply reading the book!

So that’s why I say, “the sexual organs are nothing but theatre props.” It’s the emotions that create the orgasms. Just rubbing the sexual organs does not create orgasms. But eliciting the emotions always creates orgasms. No props needed!

Once you give her an orgasm using only emotions, she will give her body to you.

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Give Women Hot Phone Sex

It Just Happened

I have spent a lot of time talking about mental, sexual foreplay and setting the tone and taking the lead.

There is one point in the process where you do not want to talk too much.

When things are actually headed to the bedroom.

This is the famous “It just happened” clause…

Let’s say you’re with a new woman, and you have been romancing her and giving her plenty of sexy dirty talk.

She will eventually end up with you in your living room.

Now, she knows exactly what’s going on. She’s alone with you in your place, and you put on some sexy music. She knows the deal.

But whatever you do, do NOT say it! Do not articulate it. Do not give it words. Women never want to talk about what they are doing, when they are going in a sexual direction.

But they want it to happen NONE THE LESS.

You want to just let things happen as if “it just happened.”

She should always be able to rationalize it later by simply saying “it just happened.” And that is only possible if you do NOT talk about it…

…Even while it’s happening!

You want it to be like two people got swept away in passion.

But eventually, things escalate. Two people are making out passionately on the couch. And at some point, things are going to move into the bedroom.

But you don’t SAY that. Instead, you simply stand up, take her hand, and lead her into the bedroom.

Note: You do not SAY what is going to happen. You do not ASK for permission. You just do it.
Now she is free to just pull you back onto the couch, and that is fine. You can later figure out how you misjudged the situation, and you can make the move again another time.

Eventually, she will simply follow you. She is not going to SAY that she is going to follow, she will simply follow your lead.

“It just happened!”

Ok, so now you two are on the bed making out passionately.

By this point, a woman has already decided how far she is going to go. She has already decided in her mind what she will and will not do that night. There is nothing more you can say or do in the bedroom to change her mind, without losing respect.

But she will not SAY what she is willing to do or not, and you certainly can’t ask her, because that would violate the “it just happened” rule.

And you do not know what decision she had made. So, you have to find out for yourself by doing all that silly clumsy stuff like taking off her clothes one piece at a time while she’s lying on her back.

It’s silly, I know, but that’s how it goes when you are doing the incremental “it just happened” stuff.

Keep the talk metaphorical. Avoid using the names of body parts. It is all about being swept away by passion for each other. It is all a mind thing.

At some point, she may stop you. If she does, do NOT push hard past that. If you push too hard, she will lose respect for you.

If it doesn’t go further that night, let it be. Act like nothing wrong happened.

I know this is hard for some of you guys to swallow, but be confident in knowing that she WILL melt in your arms.

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Fast & Cocky Flirting Tips Women Get Wet For! Part III.

Tactic #3: Employ her/fire her

When she mentions something that she’s good at, or an area where she has experience, tell her you’re “hiring” her to help you with it. This frames you as the more powerful one in the conversation, and gives you a reason to “fire” her at any time (in a playful way).

You say something like:

“Wow Jennifer, you seem like a smart girl who really knows what’s up. I just decided, I’m hiring you as my personal assistant.”

Or….

“Wow, it seems like you know all the nightclubs and cool spots in this town. I’m hiring you. From now on you’re my personal party planner whenever I have friends come to town.”

You get the idea. You can “hire” her to do anything.

You can make her your personal party DJ, fashion stylist, gym trainer, etc…

One time I had a cute girl with PERFECT breasts tell me that she was a writer…

So I told her, “Okay, you’re hired. You’re going to be my personal biographer from now on. You’ll write the book about my life that will inspire future generations of men. So you’ll need to tag along with me, and we’re going to go on some adventures together…”

That girl and I dated for the next two months and it was some of the best sex of my life. The “book project” was never mentioned again. That line just WORKED to get her home with me, and I was showing the kind of “cocky confidence” that girls love, the way a fat kid loves cake… The fun part of this tactic is, when she says something that you disagree with, you can “fire” her: “Oh my God, I can’t believe you just like that movie. That’s it — you’re fired. Tell the girl over there in the red dress she can submit her resume.”

It’s all in good fun, but you’re sending the message that you’re the one in control and calling the shots. As long as BEFORE the teasing you spent some time getting her to feel comfortable with you, and interested, these types of lines will create sexual tension and make her want to PROVE herself. If you want to learn a quick 5-minute system for making any girl feel like she has “sexual chemistry” with you, look at this

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Fast & Cocky Flirting Tips Women Get Wet For! Part II.

Tactic #2: Accuse her of hitting on YOU.

If it’s time to get her a drink – or she offers to buy you one – say, “Okay, one drink, but promise you won’t try to take advantage of me.”

Or, “It’s going to take more than a drink to get me into bed. I expect dinner and a movie at least.”

If she touches you, you can say “Hey, hands off the merchandise. That’ll be twenty dollars.”

If she asks you a question about yourself, don’t give her an answer.

Say: “I know you’re totally hitting on me right now, because that’s a question I ask girls when I’m hitting on them. It’s okay, I just want you to know I expect you to buy me dinner and a movie before anything happens.”

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