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Category: Dating

Fast & Cocky Flirting Tips Women Get Wet For! Part I.

Once you’re into a conversation with a girl (and I’ll explain the #1 way to approach a girl and “break the ice” in a moment), use these four simple tactics during the conversation:

Tactic #1 Mention how you two could “never date.”

You say something like this to her:

“You and I could NEVER be boyfriend and girlfriend. We’re way too much alike. We’d be breaking up all the time, and then having wild make-up sex and destroying all of my furniture and waking up the neighbors. It’s probably not a good idea.”

(And then you change topics.)

Or you say:

“It’s too bad I swore off dating girls like you…”

Or…

“You’re such a nice girl. You really shouldn’t be hanging out with a guy like me. I could get you in all kinds of trouble.”

Or…

“You’re such a sweet girl…you should probably be talking to a nice boy like the one over there (point to some dorky-looking dude). I’m more like the guy your mom warned you about.”

It’s all about creating SEXUAL CHEMISTRY with her, and a big part of this is making her think you are NOT into her. You mess with her mind, and then you reel her in and seduce her. Go here and I’ll show you.

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Turning a failed relationship around

There’s a lot of messages from husbands who are in dire need of a sexual 911.

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How can I get my wife more interested in having sex?

…Particularly in different positions? All she likes in the missionary position.

She said that sex is nasty. She says she is too big and that she does not like getting naked to have sex.

I tell her that she is not and that she looks great.

Our biggest fights always revolve around sex.

Thanks,

K

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K:

Mental foreplay buddy.

Command respect. Respect her. Do not be needy.

Then, perhaps gently in your case, start to implement dirty talk.

Instead of “having sex” you should instead switch to making her mind “escape.”

When in bed, you should “worship” her body, “savor” her body. Take lots of time savoring her body.

Spend lots of time massaging and touching her all over.

And dirty talk. Always dirty talk. That means narrate what you’re doing as you’re doing it.

Spend lots of time slowly working the deep spot or rubbing her clit and tease her by holding her close to orgasm for a long time.

Then, do NOT ask for anything in return.

I’m serious – don’t do it!

Just kiss her and go to sleep. (You can slip away to wack off if need be, but do NOT let her know this.)

Do that for a few weeks and see how things change.

Be the Man. Lead her. Command respect. Be exciting. And everything before and after sex is mental foreplay.

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Bring Out Her Inner Slut

3 Shocking Rough Sex Secrets That Will Have Her Begging You For More…

Many guys I know who use these 3 techniques get regular texts from women saying things like “I’m so wet thinking about last night” or “I can’t wait to feel your touch again.”

Believe it or not, it’s actually very easy.

1) Hold Her Down.
Women (especially feminine women) love feeling contained during sex since it allows her to feel secure, and she can freely express her sexuality with you.

The easiest way to do this is to take her wrists, and hold them together over her head while you’re on top of her. You can do this while making out, or during sex.

You can also hug her tight, and keep her “secured” that way. The important thing is that she feels restrained, and in a way, under your control.

2) The “Spank”.
Spanking a girl is the easiest way to get into impact play, since you’re not going to hurt her by slapping her on the butt. And honestly, in my experience, it’s pretty rare to find a girl who doesn’t like it after she’s tried it.

Start firmly, and with an open palm. To judge whether she likes it, you can ask, “Is that hard enough for you?” or “Want it harder?”

That allows you to stay in control and keep her feeling good without losing any dominance.

3) The “Choke”.
This is the most advanced of these 3 moves by far. And it’s probably the toughest to master.

When choking her, you do not want to squeeze her windpipe. And you don’t want to grab her carotid arteries on the side of her neck too hard to where she passes out.

You want to choke her just right… with just enough pressure that she feels totally under your control in bed without getting hurt.

So start a little bit lighter than you might think, and focus on lightly pressing against her carotid arteries.

If she wants you to choke her harder, she’ll tell you.

Another way to do this is to grab her on the back of the neck. Since that’s muscle, you can be a little rougher, and she’ll love it since it’ll still feel like you’re in control.

Those 3 Rough Sex Secrets will get you started on your way to being the dominant, in-charge guy she wants in the bedroom.

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It is your job to set up the situation so she can be sexually excited!

It’s frustrating to see men get so confused by husbands who just don’t get that when the day is through and the responsibilities of the day are complete, their wives just don’t seem to be in the mood.

Hmmm.

Women don’t think like you.

A man’s thinking is very compartmentalized. He can think, “OK the laundry’s done, the motorcycle is fixed, phone calls are all returned. The itinerary is set for work in the morning. So what now? I know! Let’s have sex!”

And then they go find their wives and initiate. To varying results.

A woman is like a 74 Cadillac on a cold winter morning. You have to warm that 472 cubic inch V-8 before you can step on the gas. You can’t simply start the engine in 20-degree weather and go.

You can’t just walk up to an unaroused woman, perhaps distracted by the stresses of the day, pat her on the ass and say “let’s go.” Well, you could, but I wouldn’t recommend it.

You must master the art of mental foreplay. You must have her engine running all day, even for days on end.

It is your job to set up the situation so she can be sexually excited.

Once you’ve done that properly, the sky is the limit.

You can tell her to do anything, and she will do it. And especially because you tell her to do it. That is especially exciting for her. It is one of the many ways that a woman pleases her man, by demonstrating her responsiveness to him.

But you must create the excitement. How?

With dirty talk. Or I could say “erotic narration” or “storytelling.”

Dirty talk is not spewing a string of profanity at your woman. It is not being raunchy.

There is a difference between dirty talk and raunchy talk. Raunchy talk turns off all women.

It reeks of horny. It cheapens the act. It is degrading.

It is contradictory to having respect for her as an individual.

She could not possibly respond to it, because to do so would define her as a slut, cheap, and loose.

And it puts the man in the category of “most men.” It takes away from the “uniqueness” of him.

The magic of proper mental foreplay is appreciating her. Letting her know how beautiful and attractive she is.

And then engage in sexy storytelling that will make her imagination run wild.

Dirty talk and mental foreplay are completely covered in the program, “Give Women Hot Phone Sex.” While you will be lethal with a phone, the concepts are critical to all aspects of a relationship and should be continuously applied.

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Give Women Hot Phone Sex

The female horniness crisis

There is a worldwide crisis afoot.

And I’m not talking about immigration, nationalism, or freedom of speech…

I’m talking about the underlying crisis that is causing all the above…

…Women aren’t getting the sex that they need.

Women are horny monsters.

Their lack of getting what they need and men’s frustration at being unable to provide it is creating all the underlying tension at the root of society’s ills. It could destroy the world.

We all need to do our part to stop this from happening.

I have found in most cases, women are far hornier than men.

One woman I knew who was in her late 30s told me, “I get so damn horny! I feel like a 16-year-old boy. It’s not fair!” Another woman told me, “It gets worse at the time I ovulate. Every man I see with a cute butt I want to jump him right then and there and ride him hard!”

Even so, women ONLY do these things when led by a man.

They cannot do it themselves. They cannot initiate themselves.

They can’t even suggest it because that would be contrary to being a woman. She needs a man to lead her.

Where is she going to find such a man? Men like this are extremely rare.

That’s why the world is going to hell, and that’s what makes the master lover such a precious find.

That’s why as many men as possible need to learn how to lead!

Look I get it, we were all fooled by social conditioning…

Social conditioning protects women from men who only want to use women for sex.

If social conditioning trains people to believe that women must first be in love to have sex or that they must first be in a committed relationship, then women always have a defense against men who view women as simply objects. Rightly so.

It keeps teenagers in check. Parents teach their children that sex is only for love and marriage so their children won’t go out and have sex and end up with teenage pregnancies.

And that worked for generations.

The problem now with first, second, third wave feminism and things like #metoo is that men and women have been made equal. Some would argue women have been put above men.

I’m not arguing the politics or ethics of any of this, I’m simply pointing out that men are confused and turning away from taking any kind of lead and women are increasingly isolated from men and frustrated.

Somebody has to be the adult in the room, take charge and set things right.

That’s us.

You need the power to take charge, first of yourself and then of your relationships with women in and out of the bedroom.

Ready to join the cause?

Enlist here, now before it’s too late.

Mass celibacy and sexual frustration will throw the world into another dark age.

It’s not too much to say you are doing your part to save the planet.

Learn how to dominate once and for all.

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Warning signs she doesn’t find you attractive

This is one of my favorite quotes (related to girls):

“Chicks are like hunters, they want to bag a lion or a bear.. something really hard to catch. And along comes you. You are like this affectionate little puppy.”

You’re cute, you’re nice, you have a lot in common with her… but you’re way too easy to catch. And that bores her.

And with chicks, boredom = death.”

The question you need to ask yourself is “how easy am I to catch?”

Remember, dogs don’t chase rocks sitting on the ground.

They chase rabbits that dart in and out of bushes.

So, how do you get a girl to chase you?

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Tempted by another man

This came in from Erika:

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I’m semi-happily married to my husband with whom I share many interests, but he lacks any style in the bedroom. He has not been able to bring me to orgasm ever in eleven years of being together.

I have bought toys to help, and he actually gets jealous of them. I did tell him I like dirty talk and all the other things I know I like.

I even bought your CD’s, and he hasn’t picked them up to listen to them yet. He actually acted hurt over my suggestions of listening to them.

I have been chatting with another male friend who sounds like he knows very well how to please a woman and tells me all the things he would do to me. I have been very tempted to be with him but know it’s not really going to help my situation at home.

Then sometimes I think having a lover to satisfy my needs on the side is just what I need. This other person is only looking to sexually gratify me, nothing else.
I’m wondering if there is something else I can do to convince my husband to take my subtle clues I need him to be more interested in satisfying me. He does oral for maybe three minutes then wham bam thank you, mam.

I’m VERY frustrated all the time!! Help me because I’m soooo tempted to take this other man up on his offer.

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Erika is on her way to leaving her husband. Poor thing.

She sounds like a good woman. She wants it to be her husband that gratifies her, but he is useless.

He is probably afraid to take control in the bedroom and is threatened by any effort she makes to address it.

How pathetic and weak.

She is going to end up fucking this friend.

Today, you have to be everything. A good man and a Bad Boy in the bedroom.

You have to take an active interest in getting good in the bedroom and understanding how that makes you a complete man.

And you may need someone to show you the ropes.

Hello, that’s why I’m here!

Let’s make sure your wife never writes me a letter like this one.

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Bring Out Her Inner Slut

The ongoing battle for control of your mind

Do you ever feel like you know what to do… but can’t get yourself to do it, when it comes to flirting with girls?

The Ongoing Battle For Control Of Your Mind:

“I know what to do. But I can’t get myself to do it.”

“When I get in front of a girl my mind goes blank. The only thing I can think of are boring small talk questions.”

“I know I should be fun, flirty, and sexual, but for some reason, I feel trapped in boring mode.”

Those are some of the common responses I’ve gotten the last few days from guys who replied to these emails.

So what is going on?

THE BATTLE.

There is a constant battle going on in your mind.

The battle is between your “logical brain” and your “creative brain.”

Both are trying to “grab the wheel.”

Here is the problem:

The minute you try to think of what to say, filter your personality, think of a tactic to use, remember an article you read, look for an opportunity to tease a girl or flirt…

Your LOGICAL MIND has grabbed the wheel.

Here is a COLD HARD FACT:

You can’t create a fun, flirtatious vibe when your “logical mind” has control of the wheel.

This is why the first step in a conversation should NOT be to think of how to impress a girl, use a tactic, or even flirt with her.

So then what is it?

The first thing you need to do is to shut down your “logical brain.”

Your “logical brain” is the part of you that tries to micro-manage a conversation and is constantly analyzing and worrying about everything you’re about to say.

And this makes you appear stilted, try hard, and boring.

See, the first step to becoming “ON” is discovering how to effortlessly stay out of your own head, and be completely engaged in the moment.

Here is the problem most guys run into:

You try to use your “logical brain” to get into a more confident, attractive state of mind.

But the problem with this is that you have to THINK about it to do it. And as soon as you begin thinking about your “state” you immediately take yourself out of the moment, and lose that natural confidence.

And pretty soon you’re bumbling through your mind searching for the “right words”…

I don’t think I need to tell you that the minute you start “planning” what you’re going to say…

You’ve LOST. Poof, its over. Even if you come up with perfect line, it comes out stilted and try hard.

So what do you do instead?

Pay attention, what I’m about to explain is the KEY CONCEPT to getting and staying ON and learning how to convey “raw personality.”

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“Activate your Imagination”

Did you ever wonder how some guys seem to be able to “connect the dots” in a conversation super fast?

Like they instantly have an interesting, witty, or fun reply?

Or they can “hold court” and keep the attention of a group without ever floundering?

Here is the thing: They had NO TIME to “think” about what they were going to say.

They had no time to “mold” their words to what they thinks will impress her.

Then how was it so perfect?

Because they are letting their IMAGINATION do all the work.

Bear with me.

This is an important concept to understand. And it will make more and more sense as we go on.

Imagination and creativity is ultimately what “connects the conversation dots.”

Don’t let the words creativity or imagination intimidate you.

This is NOT about being some creative poet, or imaginative science fiction writer…

Its about the ability see “connections” that you normally might have missed.

The good news is that its already there for you.

You probably notice it sometimes when you’re with people you’re comfortable with and you’re “VIBING.”

When you’re in a fun state “vibing” with your friends, you probably surprise yourself with some of the jokes, stories, and banter that flows out of your mouth.

The reason this happens is because you allow your “logical brain” to go to sleep and your imagination takes over.

This is also why some of the best conversations we have are talking about “nonsense”.

Nonsense, silliness, made up shit, imaginary scenarios…

HINT: The same type of conversation I talk about when discussing “taking her back to the playground.”

In fact, any time a sentence starts with “We should totally (insert some thing you’re never actually going to do but its fun to imagine) – you’re having one of these types of conversations.

You might never have thought of it this way. But its true.

To be playful is NOT analytical – it comes from and is responded to on an emotional level. To be playful and spontaneous you have to just let your mind vibe.

You have to be comfortable in the situation so that you feel a kind of “relaxed excitement” where you can just run through all sorts of combinations and images in your mind, feel them, and convey them.

If you have trouble expressing your personality in a fun, attractive way around girls, its most likely because you’re “logical brain” refuses to take its hands off the wheel.

And as long as he’s the one driving, you’re in for a boring, frustrating, and sex-less ride.

And it doesn’t matter how much theory you understand about attraction, it doesn’t matter how many examples of flirtatious lines you memorize…

You’re “logical mind” is gonna get in the way and fuck it up.

The first step to turning yourself ON is to make the switch from logical to creative.

A few magical things happen when you activate your imagination and creativity around girls:

1. You start responding in social situations “lightening fast”, whether its spontaneously asking the receptionist for drinks after work, having the perfect reply when woman smiles and makes eye contact with you, or quickly take things to a more fun and intimate level on a date, skipping all that boring, libido-killing small talk.

2. You become “unconstrained” in what you’ll say and begin to act more “real” expressing your unique and attractive personality in a way that draws girls toward you.

(And let me tell you, there is NOTHING that’s a bigger turn on for a chick than to catch a glimpse of the REAL you, the RAW NAKED “unfiltered” personality.)

3. You finally shut up that little self sabotaging chump voice in the back of your head.

When that voice is GONE. When that intimation is GONE. When your usually jumbled, misfiring, and inconsistent mind becomes…

UNTANGLED and CLEAR.

Your mind quiets, and everything you do just works.

Your humor hits, your stories rock, and people follow your lead. You have the strongest “magnet” of attention.

And you begin to move and communicate with a total lack of self-consciousness.

And naturally become the cool, fun, mellow, humorous guy that people (especially women) LOVE to be around.

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Badass Tip To Get Her Juices Flowing

Here’s a quick tip to getting her panties moist. To get her thinking about having you inside her, just from that initial convo.

When you’re talking to her, don’t stare at her directly in the eyes the whole time. Instead, make an effort to watch her mouth. Don’t stand their staring at it like some serial rapist. She might call the cops! Just look at her mouth subtly and naturally.

I guarantee she will start thinking about sex. She’ll start getting turned on. But that’s not the best part. The best part is she WON’T even know it!

It bypasses her built-in radar so she won’t even know you’re doing it. It just hits her subconscious. Hits here where it hurts. And where you’ll turn those sexual juices on like a light switch.

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Attract Hotter Women

How To Build Chemistry WITHOUT Saying A Single Word

Have you ever been on a date with someone where you just sensed a spark that made it super-easy to talk to her?

Everything flowed perfectly. Your conversation never ended. And it seemed like you knew her for years…

If you have experienced such chemistry, it probably turned into at least a friendship. And maybe it even turned into a hookup or a relationship.

Such instant, natural chemistry can be hard to find. Which is when some people find it, they attribute it to “destiny.”

Well you can wait around your entire life hoping for such a connection to appear. Or you can start doing things to make it appear, such as this:

Mimic her moves.

Some may say this is trying to force chemistry. But all you’re really doing is trying to show her you’re on the same wavelength. This will make her subtly believe that she’s meant to be with you…

This low-key method of seduction is called “mirroring.” It’s where you copy her moves and “flow”…

For instance, picking up your drink when she picks up hers. Leaning the way she leans. Smiling when she smiles. Laughing when she laughs. Speaking in the same tone and volume. And so on….

Don’t make it obvious that you’re mirroring her. Do it as naturally as possible so you don’t seem like you’re trying too hard…

As you continue to mirror her, she should pick up on your signals. And if things go well, you should be taking her home after you pick up the check.

Mirroring is one great way to build chemistry. But as good as your nonverbal signaling is, you’ll still have to speak if you hope to hit a home run.

What should you say to seduce her subtly?

That’s a question many men have no idea how to answer.

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