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Category: Relationships

How to stand out to women

Here’s the 101: When the average guy approaches a woman they break the ice with dull chatter that’s almost genetically identical to every line she’s ever heard.

The result? Zero interest and rejection. She’d rather lick shit from the floor than listen to it because it’s less likely to make her wanna puke.

But the guy who has taken a little time to learn how to talk to women so she’s instantly engaged and interested, really stands out.

Look. Up you game. Let other guys try to bore the pants off a chick and end up in rejection-city.

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How to get her thinking about you in dirty ways…

I know rich and handsome guys who are desperately lonely…

Who can’t for the life of them seem to figure it out…

I know guys who would spend thousands on prostitutes out in Vegas because it’s what he thought he deserved…

I’ve also know fat geeky guys, and poor guys who amazing and beautiful girlfriends.

Loyal, caring, loving girlfriends…

This happens because a woman’s logical brain isn’t the one who’s choosing who she’s attracted to, it’s her emotions that are running the show.

(actually it’s like that for most people, not just women)

Most average guys thought process on the matter is “Well on a scale of 1-10 I’m about a 5, so I can only date and go after girls who are 5’s or lower…maybe a 6 if I’m lucky”.

God…this is such a toxic way to think, but I see it all the damn time!

Don’t be that guy.

Learn how to harness a woman’s emotions, and start using them to your favor.

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Why young women with daddy issues can’t resist older men

Flashback to our caveman days…

The world was cruel, unforgiving, and most of our ancestors died young…

Whether it was from starvation, infection, or getting torn to shreds by a sabre tooth tiger – the average life expectancy was less than 30 years old.

But…

A man who defied the odds, and lived to a ripe old age – that man was a HERO.

A survivor.

A genetic anomaly.

Because that old man resisted the disease that decimated his people.

That old man fought the terrifying cave bear, and lived to tell the tale…

And when his tribe was on the brink of starvation, it was that old man’s spear that brought down the great wooly mammoth – saving them all from certain death.

That old man was worshipped by his people.

He was a guru. A guide. A mentor.

A rockstar in a primitive time.

His whispy white hair, battle scars, and leathery, cracked skin were LIVING PROOF that he could do much more than survive in a brutal environment… he could thrive in it.

And the most fertile females fought tooth and nail to mate with him.

After all, if HE lived to old age… perhaps his offspring would too.

Fast forward to present day.

Survival instincts from our distant past are hard coded into our DNA.

And for many young women, that includes a fierce attraction to older men.

The problem is, chances are…

YOU CAN’T SEE THESE WOMEN.

You’re walking around with blinders on…

Oblivious to the thousands of gorgeous girls who would jump at the chance to hop into bed with you.

And because you’ve been blind, inevitably, you approached the WRONG girl… A girl who has zero interest in a man twice her age.

And you were brutally rejected.

Your confidence took a hit, and now you’re even less likely to try again in the future.

It’s a vicious circle that leaves you lonely and alone – all because you picked the wrong girl…

But imagine, for a moment, that there was a way… an incredible, foolproof way to spot young women… who LOVE older men.

Young women who carry the exact genetic code of their “daddy loving” ancestors…

And when you can easily recognize young women who are obsessed with older guys…

Everything changes.

In fact, more often than not, all you have to do is walk up, say “hello”, and she’ll take it from there.

It’s like having your very own pair of X-ray glasses.

Glasses that remove all of the guesswork.

So you don’t have to wine and dine her.

You don’t have to shower her with money or gifts.

You don’t have to deal with rejection.

And you don’t even have to come onto her…

Better yet, these X-ray specs work for almost ANY older man…

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Nice Guys embarrass the rest of us

Nice Guy wimps really suck. I mean, they are an embarrassment to the rest of us.

Women will tell you this more than anybody.

I am going to share with you excerpts from an epic rant that a woman put on craigslist waaay back in September of 2006.

It is more relevant today than ever.

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So I’m dating a nice guy now, and it SUCKS. No other way to explain it, it just SUCKS.

He’s no challenge. He agrees with everything I say. He’s got it all though – a decent job, a nice house, no kids, no psycho ex-wives, and he’s tall and cute.

He’s just too fucking nice. Nice is boring. I’ve never heard him raise his voice. He’s never aggressive. He has no edge. He won’t even drive over the speed limit, and that fucking annoys the shit out of me, yet I sit in the passenger seat and keep my mouth shut… watching everyone whiz by us.

Don’t get me started on the sex. Oh, excuse me… making love.

After he cums (note I didn’t mention anything about ME cumming), he rolls over and says, “Oh, that was nice,” with a little sigh. I KID YOU NOT, he says it EVERY TIME, and then he sighs like he has just woken from a refreshing nap. I finally got so tired of missionary and him looking lovingly into my eyes and smiling as he came, that I threw him down on the couch one night and mounted him. At first, he was terrified – yes, TERRIFIED. He thought something had possessed me.

It HAD — it was sheer MADNESS. I fucked the shit out of him that night. He then sighed and said, “Oh, that was nice.” Now that we had the cowgirl position conquered (always with that sigh afterward), it was time to move on to doggie. His ex-girlfriend never did doggie. (Hmmm… maybe there’s a “nice” ex-girlfriend to blame for his timid niceness? That bitch…) Anyway, I digress. I tell him I want him to fuck me from behind. Yes, I used the word “fuck,” and I didn’t care what he thought about it. He gets behind me and enters me, and damned if he didn’t say, “OH, THIS IS NICE”!!! Are there any 35 y/o men out there that haven’t smacked a woman’s ass when doing her doggie?

YES, and he’s my boyfriend!

Tonight during sex, I think I’m gonna tell him to stick his finger in my ass when I’m riding him. THAT should be interesting.

So for the nice guys out there, my advice is this: It’s great that you’re nice (to an extent), but have some backbone.

Don’t be a spine donor all your life. When your girl is out of line, say something. Don’t let her walk all over you. Occasionally, be a “bad” boy (being bad doesn’t translate to abusive or criminal). Say “No” to her sometimes. Raise your voice and be heard. Say something dirty/sexy to her occasionally. Drink a few too many beers and piss out in public. Smack her ass.

Don’t ever use the word NICE to describe things, especially sex (okay, that may be a personal pet peeve).

Have an interest in at LEAST one sport (or pretend to).

Drive 5-10 miles over the speed limit once in a while.

Run an old lady off the road just for kicks (yeah, I’m kidding about this one… just ride her bumper for a few miles).

Be aggressive during sex. Take off those damn white socks and Jesus sandals.

Grow a goatee for a few weeks. Shave your balls. Stray from your routine and shake things up.

BE A MAN FOR GOD’S SAKE… and the women will fall at your feet.

Whew… THAT FELT NICE.

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This is outstanding. It speaks for itself so well, I could leave it here without comment.

But I’ll say a few things:

This was written 13 years ago. Since then social justice types have taken over colleges, we’ve had rape culture arise, #metoo, and now we have incels and men going mgtow.

The bedroom is getting a lot more challenging for women.

A man who can “just be a man” like she said is rare.

A man who can just be a man and take over in the bedroom?

Now that’s a unicorn.

When you can do that, women will indeed fall at your feet.

Bring Out Her Inner Slut

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“text me next weekend, if you want..”

Another question today:

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I gave this girl my number last night, along the lines of “text me if you’re out next weekend.”

So she gave me her phone, I typed my number in, and then I left to catch up with my friends.

Later that night, she texts me saying “Hey it’s Leah, just giving you my number so you can text me next weekend if you want.”

So the idea is supposed to be that SHE is pursuing ME… but now she’s tried to take the power back and get me to call her?

I’m thinking I’m just going to let this one go, and NOT contact her.

She can contact me if she wants, and if she’s interested enough, she’ll pursue me.

Is this the right thing to do?
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My answer:

Yes, that’s what she’s trying to do.

And yes, you’re doing the right thing in letting her go.

Here are a few of the reasons that this might have happened

(and what you can do about it)

I’m not saying that you did all of this stuff, I’m just throwing out some of the most common causes:

She may have interpreted,

“Text me if you’re out next weekend.”

As,

“Text me if you’re out next weekend BECAUSE I WANT TO SEE YOU.”

So, from now on try, “I might be out next weekend. Just text me if you wanna connect.”

This is a lot more powerful and tells her how your life IS or how you roll.

If she still texts, “Hey it’s Leah, just giving you my number so you can text me next weekend if you want.”

Just move on.

She doesn’t GET IT.

Sometimes, the act of YOU putting the number in her phone is the thing that kills it.

Usually, the excuse for handing the phone to you is, “I just got this phone and I haven’t learned how to use it yet.”

They’re frustrated and figure it’s easier and quicker for YOU to do it.

Or, it really IS a power play.

If it happens again, don’t accept the phone (don’t even move your hand) and say, “I don’t know how to do it either.”

She’ll probably start to do it herself.

The act of HER PUTTING IT IN makes it real.

It sets a precedent for how it will be from now on.

(she will be doing ALL of the work)

If you end up with the phone in your hand because she caught you off guard,

Just hand it back while you’re saying the statement above.

If she absolutely won’t do it then type it in,
Give it back to her and don’t mention it again

Let the chips fall where they may and be okay with whatever happens.

You may have been pushing it afterwards by saying, “Okay, so text me” or something like that.

Obviously, don’t do that.

Move on to the next subject.

Or if you’re finished with the conversation, end it and move on.

Your energy might have been off

And you were conveying desperation, attachment, wanting, lower status etc. (even unconsciously).

Any of these things can cause her to do what she did.

Don’t blame her;

She’s just on autopilot.

She automatically reacts to your energy.

You tell her who you are (pursuer or the pursued)

And how to treat you (like the pursuer or like the pursued) non-verbally when you arrive/approach.

That’s why it’s so important to arrive with the right energy.

It’s important that you NOT go over this in your head (in it’s current form) and relive it…

Cementing it into your belief system.

Visualize every woman you give your number to, texting you… no matter how she gets your number.

And finally, If she ends up texting you this weekend your response could be, “How do we know each other?”

This will put it back in the right context. 😉

There’s a lot more to this but I hope this helps.

Now if you’re reading my emails and saying to yourself “I really need to improve what I’m doing” because you are NOT getting the results you want, then…

I couldn’t agree with you more.

Getting success with this part of your life doesn’t just magically “Happen”.

Sure, you might have some good experiences here and there because you were either speaking to the right girl at the right time… or got a girl that was more needy than you were…

But consistent success with women is the result of knowing EXACTLY what do do each step of the way and then being able to do it.

If you want to get all of best thinking on what creates that magical thing called ATTRACTION inside of a woman, then…

You need to read my eBook “Attract Hotter Women”.

You can download it and be reading it in literally MINUTES from right now.

Go get it:

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..and download your copy now.

It will not only explain this topic better…

It will also teach you other great places to take her that doesn’t cost money…

How to take things to a “physical” level…

… And much more.

Do it.

Now, if you’ve read AHW eBook, and want to REALLY get a world-class education about how to pass her tests

Along with “word-for-word” rebuttals for every situation you’ll find yourself in, then…

I’d recommend you get “Shit Test Encyclopedia”…

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7 “Perfect Dates” That Lead to S*x…

Stuck on how to ask a girl out? Or… how to set up the date so that it’s guaranteed to be fun and easily lead to emotional connection, sex, and more?

Keep in mind that it never has to be complicated. You want things to be easy and fun, and not look like you’re trying way too hard to impress her (chasing… not attractive).

Remember, your best bet is always to set up something that’s comfortable and low-pressure for you both…

Even better… set it all up so that it’s easy to take her back to your place afterwards… and everything happens smoothly and effortlessly… so you’re both free to get caught up in the moment and enjoy each other.

Best bet – invite her to do things that you are ALREADY doing anyways… so there’s no pressure for the date to be a big “thing” that has to go well..

And on the off-chance that she flakes or can’t make it, you won’t be sitting around by yourself feeling dumb.

Here are 7 rock solid examples:

1.Weeknight happy hour. Cheap drinks, casual vibe, low commitment – near your house is ideal…
2. Sushi bar – sit at the bar and have the chef decide for you (omakase)
3. Wine bar or tapas bar – chat over wine and tapas in a sexy atmosphere.
4. Speakeasy – sexy cocktail bar with a hidden door or a secret password (Yelp can help you find these places)
5. Driving – put on some music, drive somewhere cool and not too far away, with a nice view. In LA I used to drive up to the cliffs in Palos Verdes, up the PCH to Malibu, or through the Hollywood Hills to check out the views and the mansions.
6. Strip club or sex shop– it takes an adventurous and confident girl – bring it up in conversation, you’d be surprised how many girls are totally down for this.
7. Urban exploration. Find a cool, unique landmark somewhere in your city. For example, in LA there is an old, abandoned zoo in Griffith park that takes a bit of research to find where it is… it’s really creepy and interesting and covered in graffiti. In Austin, there are a series of walls built into a hillside with amazing graffiti art that is constantly changing. These are amazing places to explore with an adventurous girl.

Enjoy your date, brotha!

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EXPOSED — 3 Lies About Dating 95% of guys believe

Yesterday I heard a story about an old man in his 70’s getting hot younger women in their 20’s and 30’s…

It definitely breaks the common dating “myth” that you have to be young, handsome and rich to get women.

Sure, those things help, but that’s NOT the whole story.

Here are a few examples of “myths” that go unquestioned and unchallenged by the slumbering, mediocre masses:

MYTHS:

– The hottest women won’t talk to you unless you’re handsome or rich, because they are only attracted to superficial things.

– Pickup lines don’t ever work on women, no matter what

– Old guys are creepy to women and can never date younger girls

That last one really makes me smile. I used to believe it 100%, but it couldn’t be more WRONG!

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The real reason romance novels sell so well

As men, we are visual creatures. We are aroused mentally.

When we see a hot woman in yoga pants at Whole Foods, we turn our heads.

A lot of men when they are seeking extra stimulation turn to porn.

Women, on the other hand, read 400-page romance novels. Romance novels are sexual entertainment for women. It is all about emotions and shared experiences. It gives them the chance to live the life they really want to live vicariously.

The people who understand the love affair that women have with romance are the authors of romance novels.

Nineteen leading romance novel authors contributed to a book called “Dangerous Men and Adventurous Women,” edited by Jayne Ann Krentz, University of Pennsylvania Press, 1992. It is a collection of essays describing the appeal of the romance novel.

It is fascinating and very enlightening.

Romance novels account for half of all book sales. Because women love them so much, I was curious about two things: what do women find so fascinating in the men featured in the books, and what is the psyche of the women readers?

This book would lead me to believe that what women admire in themselves is courage. Both of these manifest themselves or are played out, in her making a dangerous man fall in love with her.

The plot: victory for her is in teaching him to love.

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“Heroes who are gentled by love yet who lose none of their warrior qualities in the process, and heroines who conquer devils without sacrificing their femininity.

It requires that the hero acknowledge the heroine’s heroic qualities in both masculine and feminine terms. He must recognize and admire her sense of honor, courage, and determination, as well as her traditionally female qualities of gentleness and compassion.

It also requires a sexual bonding that transcends the physical, a bond that reader and writer know can never be broken.”

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And the male lead in the story?

A warrior to be tamed. The romantic hero is a leader-strong intelligent, untamed, tough, courageous, cynical, macho and dangerous.

Yet, he is communicative and, deep down, is susceptible to succumbing to the vulnerabilities of deep love.

She is a woman of intelligence, integrity, loyalty, faith, confidence, but above all courage. She conquers every challenge, the most difficult of which is taming the hero.

Sex in the romance novel is a celebration of the bond created between the heroine and the hero.

He also happens to be wonderful in bed. It is a given that a woman is entitled to sexual satisfaction and that a real man can’t be fulfilled unless his partner is also fulfilled.

The romance novel fills a woman’s need to learn to love herself.

In reading it, the woman escapes into a fantasy world where she can be everything she has always wanted to be and feel everything she has always wanted to feel with the security of knowing that there will be a happy ending.

If the romance novel teaches a woman to love anybody, the person she must learn to love is herself.

And there you have, in a nutshell, the emotional needs of all women in a romantic sense.

I could have charged a thousand dollars for the information in this email. Read it over and over and internalize it.

When you understand her psyche and what she needs, you will have the correct instincts.

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Bring Out Her Inner Slut

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Tired Of Being The First One To Text?

It’s amazing how egos get in the way when it comes to dating. And one place where this really becomes evident is with text messaging.

Just think of the last girl you texted. A girl you either wanted to hook up with or date seriously.

I bet there were many times where you totally ignored her on purpose. Where you refused to send her a text. Even though you were DYING to hear from her.

Why’d you do it? PRIDE. You wanted her to text you first. Just to give you a sign that she was thinking of you.

But that text never came. And you never texted her. So what happened? NOTHING.

You never spoke again. And to this day, you probably still think about her.

Well I can eliminate that silly pride game from your life. And I can also get you the girl.

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Women love dominance and dirty talk

All of my experience going back to the early 1990’s points to the overwhelming reality that women love to be talked dirty to and they love to be dominated.

That’s why they so often fall for Bad Boys. The Bad Boy is the only place most women can even come close to getting that scratch itched.

I set out to do better.

I was a respectful gentleman outside the bedroom, but I was always pushing the envelope to see how very naughty I could make them be.

I would make up naughty fantasies and say all kind of crazy shit.

I would make a fantasy scenario where she is a very naughty little schoolgirl who was caught masturbating, and I am the mean, disciplinarian principal.

I would spank her and tell her how naughty she is and that she needs to be disciplined. “You’re being very naughty! You will learn to be a good girl! You are being so naughty, but you want to be a good girl! Come like a good girl!”

This would consistently result in powerful orgasms.

One woman I dated was the executive assistant for the president of a huge corporation. She was very proper and conservative and wore Liz Claiborne suits. She owned a condo on a lake.

I would take her out to the beach and fuck her on the picnic table where anyone with binoculars could see. I told her, “You love getting fucked where everyone can see you. You are so very naughty!”

Then, I brought her into her condo and fucked her in every room of her house, while telling her, “You love to get fucked! You can’t get fucked enough!” She would almost lose consciousness with the long string of orgasms.

Women love to be naughty!

I had also read stories about women being tied up, so I tried that.

I would tie her hands to the bedposts so that her arms were outstretched and she was restrained to the bed, unable to get away.

Then, I’d remind her how she is so very helpless and that I intended to do with her as I pleased and have my way with her.

Then, I’d tease her with oral stimulation and hold her right on the edge. Then, I’d ravish her by fucking her hard, which always resulted in spectacular orgasms.

They loved it!

They still love it. They will always love it.

Life is good, you can dominate women and have a great time. You just need actually to get out and do it!

By David Shade

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Bring Out Her Inner Slut

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