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How to Meet the Fitness Hotties at the Gym

So you’re at the gym and you notice a smoking hot babe who looks like she could be on the cover of a fitness magazine.

Tight yoga pants… sports bra… flat stomach… great body.

What guy wouldn’t want a girl like that, right?

The problem is, if you walk right up and start hitting on her, she’s gonna think you’re a creepy perv!

Instead, you wanna take a casual, relaxed approach.

Don’t make it complicated or “high pressure.”

Just catch her at a moment when she’s not busy working out, smile and say hello.

For example:

“Hey, I see you here all the time, I don’t think we’ve met yet. I’m Mike.”

Simple and friendly, right? It’s no different than greeting a neighbor.

If she’s not interested in talking today, she’ll say hello and then carry on with her workout.

And you don’t lose anything or risk looking weird – you’re just being friendly and saying hi to someone you see on a regular basis.

Be cool about it, and leave her to her workout.

The next time you see her, she’ll remember you as the chill friendly guy and she’ll be more down to talk.

But most likely, she’ll stop and talk to you for a minute.

And from there you can chat with her and build a connection.

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My advice – keep it brief and avoid being too generic/forgettable.

Find out at least 1 interesting thing about her that you can bring up again the next time you see her.

And make sure to get her laughing, so the next time you see each other, she’ll be stoked to see you and you can move things forward to getting her number and hanging out later.

Here’s one of my favorite things to say that always gets a girl smiling at the gym:

“By the way, you look great today. Have you been, like… working out or something?”

Cheeky humor, for the win.

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Why you should only give out your number?

Today I want to talk about phone numbers.

Getting them…

More specifically I want to tell you why you should only give YOUR number out and not ask for hers.

Look, I totally get it.

Giving out your number might be tough at first because you really don’t believe in it.

Don’t worry if the texts don’t come pouring in at first.

Be patient.

Do it consistently and it’ll end up paying off.

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The payoff is worth anything you have to go through.

You see, you’re probably going to be very attached to seeing her again…

Like she’s the last girl you’ll ever meet…

And C’mon, you know better, but, that’s how strong your inner voice is.

The thing you need to realize is this… the more you give your number out, the more comfortable you’ll be.

Soon, they will start texting you and then your life will never be the same again.

With each text, you’ll become more confident.

Each one giving you the resolve to give out more numbers.

Pretty soon you’ll become super smooth; Like you’re not even thinking about it.

Your internal frame will be “I only give out my number because this is the way the world works…”

They will question you less and less until there will be NO question…. it will become the way it is for you.

It will be a great lesson for many other things that you want to change about your life as well.

I know you think that when you have the number you have the power, but,

… YOU DON’T.

Even she sometimes thinks you do as well: But she’s only LOANING it to you.

She knows as soon as you reach out, you’ll be returning it to her.

You gotta understand something, getting her to give you her phone number or e­mail address is NOT an accomplishment.

It does not make you cool or successful either.

It makes you like ‘most guys’ and ‘most guys’ are unsuccessful with the ladies.

I know this is hard to swallow.

But the truth is often painful and reversing your “social programming” is not going to be a walk in the park, so to speak.

Now, I know what you’re thinking:

“You are out of your mind!”

“I can’t even get numbers at this point so giving mine out just sounds ridiculous and wayyyy too advanced!”

“This technique seems backwards”

“Why would I give them the control?”

“What if she doesn’t text? I’ll be waiting and feel helpless”

(Insert any other BS excuses you have here)

These are just excuses you make for not trying.

You’ve got to give this up and stop being attached to the outcome.

This is the issue.

We can talk about everything else until the cows come home, but this, being attached to the outcome IS the issue.

Consider this:

She will give you her number to be nice or to get rid of you, so you really don’t know if she’s interested.

She has a love/hate relationship with attention and having a lot (even if it’s not from the right guy) is better than having none.

She will give you the wrong number. Has this ever happened to you?

She won’t always return your emails, text messages or phone calls.

Whether you text, email or IM you’ll only connect with a small percentage, and that’s if you’re great.

Getting their number and texting them first, sets a precedent for how things will be if you hook up regularly.

Because you have set yourself up as “the pursuer” instead of the pursued, things will then be expected of you.

Even if you become great at getting numbers and hooking up, it’ll become a full time job (you’ll be doing way too much work).

Let’s be clear, you are NOT in control.

Getting a number means nothing.

(I’m getting nauseous writing this)

When she texts YOU first, she’s no longer a prospect, she’s a sale.

And one thing you need to know is that she only text’s men she’s interested in.

You already did the selling, by giving her your number instead of taking hers.

The only thing you need to do, to “service your new client”, is respond to her text and schedule her appointment with you.

No maintenance is needed.

That’s what happens when you make the product out of high quality parts in the first place.

You don’t have to be as funny, as clever, as interesting or as attentive.

You don’t have to be ANYTHING!

Having phone numbers doesn’t make you powerful, it drains your power and sets you up for failure!”

Make sense?

Ok, so you might be reading this right now, and you’re probably wondering…

“What’s The Best Way For Me to REALLY Learn This Stuff?”

Hey, I’m glad you asked.

Success with women really comes down to learning a new way to think about women, then combining it with the actual techniques that cause women to feel that magical emotion called ATTRACTION.

If you’re ready for SUPER success with women, then I highly recommend that you go download online ebook “Attract Hotter Women.“

It’s JAM PACKED with ideas that you can learn and use starting TONIGHT. You can go download it right now and be reading it within just a few minutes.

Download it here:

http://www.attracthotterwomen.com/letter

…to get it.

This material isn’t taught anywhere else.

It’s the best investment you can make in your dating life, period… end of story.

Bottom line: Go get your copy.

And I’ll talk to you again in a couple of days.

ttys

P.S. If you want more “come backs” to beat all of her tests, be sure to study the book:
http://nomoreshittests.com/

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Ever See A Girl And Wonder Why She’s With HIM?

I’m sure this has happened to you before. You’re walking down the street and see this short, fat, frumpy, bald guy. He’s not alone though. He’s walking hand-in-hand with a gorgeous, tall, model-type with legs that seem to go on forever.

And what goes on in your head? “How the HELL did he get her?”

You try to come up with reasons for this physical mismatch. Anything to make YOU feel better. So you say he has a lot of money. Or has some big shot career. Or he’s a drug dealer. Or you even predict that he’s packing an elephant trunk as his package.

But why come up with all those reasons? What if he just has “it”? What if he just knows how to turn a woman on?

Oh, that’s right. You’ve been programmed to think women just want money, looks, or fame out of a guy. You’re one of the brainwashed ones!

Look. Today’s the day you’re going to cut that crap out of your mind.

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You don’t need material things to attract women.

Just imagine being the pied piper and having her dance to your tune.

Think I’m nuts? You’re in for a shock…

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Giving her everything she wants

Here’s a mindset secret that 99.99% of sexually frustrated men do not know:

It’s not about you at all. It’s about HER.

In order to get everything you want, you simply give her everything she wants, and more. Give her things she didn’t even know she wanted until she experiences it.

She will then see to it that you get everything you want, and possibly even surprise you with things you didn’t even think of.

Change her mindset from it being about you, to it being about her.

For example, most women think that phone sex is so the man can get a thrill fantasizing about what the woman is wearing. You have to change that mindset.

You have to change it into being about her fantasies and desires overtaking her until she cannot help but touch herself.

Of course, you do not outright state this to her. Instead, you simply gently lead her.

For example, when on the phone, just tell her that you miss being with her. She will affirm.

Then tell her that you wish you were there with her now. She will affirm. Then tell her what you would do if you were there with her right now. She will listen and get lost in it. You will create a reality in her mind in which she can become sexual. She will start masturbating and fantasize that you really are there doing to her the things you are describing. It is all for the purpose of getting her off.

But if she sarcastically retorts with, “Are you going to ask me what I am wearing so you can get off?” as if phone sex is for men to get off, then the situation has become pathetic.

You have not done your preparation work correctly. You have not set the context that it is about her inner sexual creature being brought to life.

If she said that, then the situation has already spoiled to the point that it is no use repairing. Reply to her with, “I assumed you would enjoy hearing what I would do if I were there. If you don’t, we can talk about something else.”

(You also might want to improve your girlfriend selection skills.)

It is not about you getting sex; it is about you obliging her need for really good sex. You have to change both your mindset on that and her mindset on that.

That’s the entire point of dirty talk and phone sex. It’s about engaging her mind and making it about her pleasure.

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Dirty talk is the number one skill that you need to develop in your Master-Lover arsenal.

Learn how to do that here.

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Her text messages

Something I see happen all the time is…

Guys will start using material, and giving out their numbers

Often times without even believing it’s going to work.

And to their surprise chicks start texting them.

Now, when they do, you’ll need to know how to respond correctly.

Here’s how the conversation COULD go for you:

Her: Hey, Jim it’s Kelly from the other night

You: Hey, what’s up?

Her: Nothin, Just hangin’ out

You: So, I suppose u want to get together?

Her: Yeah, that would be great

You: Cool, I’m avail Wed or Sunday night

Her: Wed works, what do u want to do?

You: Drinks, my place, 8pm, 111 Main st.

This is where she either agrees or disagrees.

You have to be cool with either decision.

This, of course, is one of the most difficult things for most guys to do

Because they’re too attached to the outcome.

And where most guys tend to drop the ball,

Often times without even realizing they’ve sabotaged themselves.

If she disagrees with your plan just say,

You: “Okay, cool. Keep in touch…”

And you’ve gotta do it without any anger or animosity.

This let’s her know that there’s a consequence for not agreeing,

Shows that you have no fear of loss

And will also create a sense of urgency around you.

These, of course, are all things that build attraction.

If she agrees then you’re good to go…

Get it?

I hope so.

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Ok, so you might be reading this right now, and you’re probably wondering…

“What’s The Best Way For Me to REALLY Learn This Stuff?”

Hey, I’m glad you asked.

Success with women really comes down to learning a new way to think about women, then combining it with the actual techniques that cause women to feel that magical emotion called ATTRACTION.

If you’re ready for SUPER success with women, then I highly recommend that you go download online ebook “Attract Hotter Women.“

It’s JAM PACKED with ideas that you can learn and use starting TONIGHT. You can go download it right now and be reading it within just a few minutes.

Download it here:

‘Attract Hotter Women’

…to get it.

This material isn’t taught anywhere else.

It’s the best investment you can make in your dating life, period… end of story.

Bottom line: Go get your copy.

And I’ll talk to you again in a couple of days.

ttys

P.S. If you want more “come backs” to beat all of her tests, be sure to study the book:
‘No More Shit Tests’ ebook

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4 Bad Words

Online dating has made it easy for pretty much anyone to jump into the dating game (provided you have a smartphone, tablet, or computer, of course)…

Thanks to online dating, you don’t need balls of steel to approach random women in person. And it even lets you screen tons of potential partners or hook-ups in just a matter of minutes.

How do you screen them?

By looking at their profiles. And no, screening them doesn’t just mean looking at their pics…

Sure, some people are completely visual, shallow, and materialistic. But believe it or not, others still read what you write about yourself when determining whether or not they’ll give you a chance at love.

The dating app Hinge recently ran a study on what makes online dating profiles stand out – and what makes them get passed over. Here’s one of their most interesting findings:

Posting the following 4 words in your online dating profile makes you 53% LESS likely to get a conversation:

“Find me on Snapchat.”

In case you’ve never heard of it, Snapchat is an app that lets you post pics and videos. Think of it as an Instagram that’s less permanent – which allows you to get naughtier with what you post.

What’s so bad about putting “Find me on Snapchat” in your profile?

It’s the fact that it sounds like too much self-promotion. That it makes you seem arrogant. And while women love confidence, arrogance is anything but a turn-on.

When making your online profile or having a conversation with a woman, avoid too much self-promotion…

While you may think it makes you seem important and confident, it actually comes off as insecurity and what’s likely to be 100% BS.

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Now that you know “Find me on Snapchat” represents 4 words that will get you ignored and rejected, are there any words that will do the opposite so you can score some sex or hook that hot, loyal girlfriend?

You bet there are. And if you click on this link, you’ll get to see them with your very own eyes:

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Vibe and Escape The Friend Zone

This email is all about the principle about “vibing”—and it’s something that, while covered a little in the pickup community—isn’t emphasized enough.

The reason for that is that there’s no exact formula for vibing with a girl, or knowing when she’s in that state with you.

It’s a lot more subtle and intuitive, and the community tends to prefer stuff that is easily put into a formula or pattern.

Unfortunately, formulas aren’t nearly as effective as the “gurus” would lead you to believe.

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What “Vibing” Really Means

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When we talk about a girl vibing with you, what that means is that she’s not only open to romance or sex, but that her body (and body language) is responding positively to you.

This shows up in a bunch of places:

– Her posture is open, rather than closed (arms crossed is NOT good)

– She is orienting her body toward you rather than away

– She may not be touching you (though that is obviously good) but she’s at least moving

closer to you and open to being touched

– She might be playing with her hair or one of the other “signals” that pickup gurus have

talked about over the years

– Her voice is warm and friendly, maybe even sultry—and her tone indicates you are someone she trusts

And, of course, there are many other clues that have been covered in other places—including by me.

Still, I think there’s one clue that trumps all the others—and I don’t think it gets nearly enough attention.

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The “Vibe” in Her Eyes

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A lot of guys are afraid to make strong eye contact, either because they are insecure or because they don’t want to come across like a creepy version of Rasputin.

Both are understandable, but that shouldn’t stop you from paying very close attention to what’s going on in her eyes.

Because her eyes will tell you more about how she feels about you than any other part of her body. And no, I’m not just talking about dilated pupils…

Now, forgive me, because I’m about to get a little “woo woo” here—but I want you to think back to a time when girl REALLY liked you. Picture her eyes and how they looked.

(If you can’t remember a girl liking you that much, imagine a family member or someone else.)

What did that person’s eyes FEEL like? Chances are, they were not only more open, but also excited, warm, happy, inviting, curious, engaged and any number of other adjectives.

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Something You Must Learn to FEEL

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This is where formulas fall short. Because if you can’t learn to read and feel what’s going on in her eyes, you’ll never be able to fully tell how open she is to taking the next step with you.

There are some guys who are so good at this, they can literally see—just by the look in her eyes—when a girl is ready to go home with them.

It’s so powerful.

But again, you cannot be robotic about this—you must learn to get OUT of your head and pay close attention to the actual feeling that’s coming out of her eyes.

Then, you’ll be in position to really vibe her back, take the next step, and get the relationship you want…

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Creating A Powerful Real-Man Presence To Attract Women

Have you ever wondered how some regular looking guys manage to date so many attractive women…

All without spending tons of money or pursuing them?

You know what I’m talking about…

We’ve all had one or two friends that were just ordinary guys… but somehow they had a magic touch with the ladies. And even though they were just average-looking guys, women always found them sexy… and wanted to be with them in that way.

There are SECRET KEYS that these guys use…

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Truth is, only a handful of guys are naturally good at getting women… But here’s the GREAT NEWS for the rest of us:

They are NOT the best-looking or the richest guys in the room…

it’s actually what they SAY and DO

that creates such success with women for them, and that means YOU can do it too!

Attraction Isn’t A Choice

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Did One Mistake Ruin It Forever?

How did it all go wrong? Did your last lover gradually grow distant? Or did one mistake force them to call it quits?

We’re humans. We’re not perfect. We make mistakes from time to time and that’s just how life is.

So what happened? What caused the breakup? Did you cheat? Get drunk and lose your temper? Say something you shouldn’t have said?

None of those are good. And if you’re guilty, your ex has plenty of reason to be mad. You can’t break somebody’s trust like that. But if you did, you CAN gain it back.

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You need to reset the relationship. Take it back to the beginning. You know – the good times. Back when your love was head over heels in love with you.

Right now they don’t see you in the same light. They see you as a negative in their life. But you can change that.

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Why Young Women Get Physical On The First Date…

When I was growing up, girls were scared to sleep around, because if word got out – she’d be labeled as a dirty slut.

But boy oh boy, how times have changed.

Nowadays, being a “progressive” about getting physical is not only acceptable, it’s admired.

Think about it for a second…

Who are the female icons of today?

Kim Kardashian…
Miley Cyrus…
Paris Hilton…

Kim and Paris both have leaked sex tapes!

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And yet, these superstars are imitated and revered by young women everywhere.

Now, of course, in some ways this is kind of BAD.

After all, what does it say about the moral fabric of this generation?

On the other hand, it’s really GOOD news for older guys everywhere.

Because these days, if you play your cards right – the vast majority of younger women will sleep with you on the very first date.

AND once again, thanks to Kim Kardashian, the current generation of young women are more cosmetic than ever.

That means vampire facials, flawless skin, bleached buttholes, fake breasts that look and feel amazing, and baby smooth between her legs.

Is it superficial?

Yep.

Is it a little bit sad?

Hell yes it is.

Does it mean the end of the world is coming soon?

Maybe…

But the first time a gorgeous, perfectly sculpted 20 year old sex kitten squats on your face – you’ll forget all about that other shit.

I guess my point is, if you’re an older man, you HAVE TO focus on women that you like more.

And NOT because some women are hotter…

But because nowadays hot women are actually MUCH more relaxed about sleeping with you.

She’s part of this new, wonderful, “proud to be a liberated female” generation.

And it’s time for YOU to cash in.

Ok, so you might be reading this right now, and you’re probably wondering…

“What’s The Best Way For Me to REALLY Learn This Stuff?”

Hey, I’m glad you asked.

Success with women really comes down to learning a new way to think about women, then combining it with the actual techniques that cause women to feel that magical emotion called ATTRACTION.

If you’re ready for SUPER success with women, then I highly recommend that you go download online ebook “Attract Hotter Women.“

It’s JAM PACKED with ideas that you can learn and use starting TONIGHT. You can go download it right now and be reading it within just a few minutes.

Download it here:

http://www.attracthotterwomen.com/letter

…to get it.

This material isn’t taught anywhere else.

It’s the best investment you can make in your dating life, period… end of story.

Bottom line: Go get your copy.

And I’ll talk to you again in a couple of days.

ttys

P.S. If you want more “come backs” to beat all of her tests, be sure to study the book:
http://nomoreshittests.com/

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