Say THIS to Spark her Sexual Interest

So you’re talking to a girl and it’s going well… you have things in common… you’re connecting…

Great. But how do you take things in a sexual direction?

Because you know that if you don’t… if you talk forever and never get sexual… then you’re just gonna be a friend to her.

And if that’s what you want, fine… but if you want to be “more than friends,” then you need to say something in conversation to spark her emotion and turn her on.

You can’t play it safe here, you gotta go “balls to the wall.”

Here’s the #1 conversation technique to spark her sexual interest:

Breaking rapport.

You have “rapport” when everything is going well… you’re getting along… she’s smiling and enjoying herself…

And if you keep going down that road, “rapport” is all you’re gonna have.

Instead, you wanna say something to “break” rapport… to push her away and get her fired up.

The key is to do it playfully, never seriously.

For example:

“You know what, you’re gonna get me in trouble… I can’t be seen talking to you anymore.”

“Look, I’m an asshole, you don’t wanna talk to me. Why don’t you go over there and talk to that super sweet nice guy, he looks perfect for you.”

“You are such a brat… isn’t it past your bedtime? Do I need to call your parents?”

Push her away with playful little statements like that.

Never let her settle in and get comfortable – that’s the kiss of death if you want to sleep with her.

Keep her on her toes, keep her guessing, keep her working for your approval.

Now, you might be thinking… “I’m not ballsy enough or clever enough to pull this off.”

Not true! Just tease her like you used to when you were 6 years old at recess… it’s so easy a child could do it.


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Your next Tinder date

If you’d like to have a steady stream of gorgeous new women flowing straight into your bedroom…

Without having to go out to bars, spend money or risk rejection…

Then read the rest of this email very carefully.

Because right now, as you’re reading this, a TRAGIC scene is unfolding in your city!

A normal, well-intentioned guy just like yourself is about to do something really stupid.

Just 30 minutes ago, this guy was laughing and enjoying himself at dinner with his friends…

Now, he’s on his way to a dreadful place.

Pray for him, my friend, for he is about to enter the dark, soulless, beer-stained abyss of a trendy bar.

You know the drill…

You put on your best “going out to get laid” shirt…

You stand in line for overpriced drinks (because you’re not gonna talk to girls sober, duh)…

You scan the room for attractive girls who might be worth the effort…

And even if you’re lucky enough to find the perfect girl for you, she’s almost always with other guys…

Or, she’s got her guard WAY up, and she’s ready to reject any guy who even remotely looks like he’s trying to pick her up…

And it’s so LOUD, and so dark, and you can’t come up with anything good to say anyways…

So you wind up standing around drinking with the same people you came with…

Then going home drunk, empty handed and $100 poorer.

Does that sound like any fun at all? Of course not!

So why do so many guys still do it?

Especially when there’s a much better way to get hot girls these days…

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A secret that had 209 gorgeous women LINING UP to talk to me… in just one short weekend!

Now before I leave to go on my next Tinder date, I must admit something embarrassing …

I can be very absent minded at times. I once booked a plane ticket to the wrong city and didn’t realize it until I was at the airport lol.

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Get excited!

Talk soon

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Imagine a room of 300 women… screaming and cheering for a guy…

Imagine a room of 300 women… screaming & cheering for a guy…

We know one thing for sure: that guy is getting laid at the end of the night. Maybe twice.

Well I know one such guy.

Eric von Sydow

(I don’t even hesitate to believe this claim. At 44 years old, he lives with 3 women in San Diego and they’re all gorgeous.)

As you’d expect, being a male stripper, Eric has discovered “a thing or two” about pleasing a woman…

And now he’s finally revealing his secrets to pleasing a woman right here in this tutorial:

Discover the astonishing lovemaking techniques of a male stripper who slept with 1000+ women.

I don’t want to spoil the video… though one technique I LOVE is the “Pubic Bone Humming” technique…

Eric says when you’re giving a girl oral pleasure, if you rest your nose on her pubic bone and hum, the vibrations send waves of pleasure deep inside her. (Cool, right?)

And “talking” a woman to big-O without even touching her? That’s badass.

There are so many techniques in this video — ones that almost no guy on the planet knows, so this’ll give a huge edge over other guys.

You’ll really love this tutorial, go check it out here:

Click to learn more…

There is no reason any guy should have to go without…

Sometimes girls just want to get physical.

It could be because of stress from work.

Maybe she just broke up with a guy.

Maybe it’s the “right time of the month.”

And she’s just looking for a man to have some fun, casual, no-strings-attached sex with!

She’ll eagerly take the first guy who notices.

All you need to do is look for the RIGHT signals and DON’T MESS IT UP!

If it’s been a while since your hotdog has been inside a nice pair of buns…

There is no reason any guy should have to go without sex for more than 3 WEEKS MAX!

Even if you’re not rich or young or good looking.

Just take a shower, buy some mouthwash and do what works!

Click to learn more…

Why they flake on you..

You’re a good looking guy, have great hair, hip clothes, flashy car, you’re successful in business and you know all the right people… you even have
no noticeable, nervous twitching.

Let’s say that none of this is over the top and you’re not using all these things as crutches.

Basically, you think you have your act together.

So why do you still have problems attracting women, holding the attraction and getting them not to flake?

Even after they’ve shown initial interest by approaching you, telling you they’re
interested and getting together with you for mind-blowing physical activity?

I bet you never thought you might have it TOO together for them

Here’s what I mean:

You might be too perfect.

Chicks want to nurture and fix you.

When they’re with you they try to imagine where they would fit into your life and what they would help you with.

You’ve provided them with nothing to fix…

You are ALREADY fixed.

And then there’s the other thing you might be doing…

You might also be doing something relationship oriented that’s giving them the ‘go signal’ to have those thoughts in the first place.

They RARELY do that with me.

They know the deal and don’t consider any other possibilities.

Here are a couple of other reasons directly from chicks:

‘You are a good looking guy, its because we’re afraid we’ll get hurt, its a defense mechanism we have because we have been burned so many times.’

‘I really like you and I like being around you, but I am moving so I am trying my best NOT to see you, I am sorry I am just scared.’

Believe it.

This is not a lack of attraction but you might be scaring them… they’re actually intimidated by you… which is crazy if you think about it.

All this time you actually had higher status.

The good news is that you’re much more powerful and attractive than you originally thought.

It makes total sense that they would fear you.

Remember, the hotter they are, the lower their self-esteem and the average looking men they date cheat on them less (they think).

Whereas with you, they assume that every chick feels as THEY do around you so you must get physical with all of them and they’re threatened by this.

What to do?

Relax a little

Go out looking a little like you just got out of bed once in a while.

Don’t worry about being too perfect.

Give her something to fix. 🙂

Want more rock-solid dating advice?

If you’re not getting the results you want right now, you have TWO choices:

1. Keep doing what you’re doing.


2. Try something new.

Just don’t expect things to magically change for you all of a sudden because you want results.

Ok, so you might be reading this right now, and you’re probably wondering…

“What’s The Best Way For Me to REALLY Learn This Stuff?”

Hey, I’m glad you asked.

Success with women really comes down to learning a new way to think about women, then combining it with the actual techniques that cause women to feel that magical emotion called ATTRACTION.

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It’s the best investment you can make in your dating life, period… end of story.

Bottom line: Go get your copy.

And I’ll talk to you again in a couple of days.


P.S. If you want more “come backs” to beat all of her tests, be sure to study the book:


9 Ways to Start a Conversation With Nearly Any Woman

I remember the days when I’d feel “desperate” to meet women.

I’d head out to a bar or the gym to try… and I’d try everything:

Making eye contact…

Having a conversation…

Hell, I even tried dancing.

But no matter what… it never went well.

Why? Because women can “smell” desperation like that. And as you may have guessed, it’s not the most attractive scent us guys can wear.

But today, I want to talk about something else — I want to show you how to get to know a woman with no subtext, pretense, or expectations.

Why would you want to do that?

Because the truth is, the best way to pick up a woman is by NOT picking her up at all.

What Happens When You “Try Too Hard” With a New Woman?
That may sound circular, but it’s the truth. Here’s what happens:

When you try too hard to pick up a lady, it’s obvious — even to someone who’s not particularly clever or smart.

What’s worse, when a woman picks up on the fact that you’re trying to pick her up, it can very easily make her uncomfortable or defensive.

On the other hand, when you find yourself in a social setting with a woman and you engage her for no reason other than simply being social, the possibilities are endless.

Yes, sex is always one of the potential outcomes — I’m not saying it shouldn’t be on your mind.

However, it can’t be your goal.

So what do you do?

I’ve got 9 different ways to start a conversation with a woman without coming off as “desperate,” and they’re all based on proof and my own experience.

I’ll begin with the most basic strategies and together, we’ll work our way up to the most advanced ones.

Strategies 1-3: Preparation-Based
The first few strategies begin with preparing yourself to go out and approach a woman.

Because for many men, the key to having a successful night out is to be in the right mindset.

1) Be Genuine
Being genuine should not be hard — in fact, it should take no effort at all.

I know it sounds cliche to “be yourself,” but honestly it’s what you have to do. Simply refuse to put on a “persona” that you think the ladies will like.

This is a crucial step because if you “fake it” and meet a woman who likes you back, she’s going to feel lied to when she discovers you were putting on some sort of act.

2) Make a List
Another easy way to start a conversation with a new woman is to keep a list of conversation starters and stay up to date with it.

You don’t have to carry it around with you, but you should update it often. Make sure the topics on your list are of general interest and are things you are genuinely interested in.

Do you like movies, TV shows, or comedy, for example? These are all good topics to talk about with a woman you just met!

And once the conversation has started, it should flow organically, and you likely won’t have to worry about the list again — until the next time.

3) Practice in The Mirror
Finally, this might sound silly, but practice looking relaxed and pleasant in the mirror.

Seriously. Relax your jaw and brow muscles — maybe even smile a little.

This will make you look approachable and friendly. If you look tense or preoccupied, you could miss opportunities to connect with women.

Remember, your goal here is simply to meet and talk with women. That’s it.

Strategies 4-7: Approach-Based
My next few strategies focus on the actual approach.

So once you’re out at a bar (or a club, or a restaurant or whatever)… here are a few more things you can try:

4) Make Casual Eye Contact
The easiest first step to meeting a new woman is to try to make eye contact with her.

Just try and catch a glance — make sure not to stare. Staring usually comes off as creepy.

And when you do meet her gaze, what should you do from there?

5) Smile (& Observe Her Response)
Once she’s looking at you, give her a small smile. This shows her that you’re noticing her and that you’re interested in talking to her.

If she smiles back (and she’s not otherwise engaged), it’s basically a sure sign she wants you to approach her.

And if she doesn’t smile?

Just find a new woman to make eye contact with.

6) Look for Avoidant Behavior
This next strategy is more about identifying the women you shouldn’t approach.

A lot of guys make the mistake of randomly approaching women and expecting the same response every time.

In public, you can’t be sure what a woman is doing — if she’s busy, upset, or is actually looking to meet a guy like you.

So it’s important to watch out for a few key behaviors she doesn’t want to be approached.

Here are a few tips:

If she seems to be talking intently with another person, don’t interrupt…
Public transportation is not always a great place to start a conversation, approach with caution…
Do not ask a woman to remove her headphones. On the train, at the gym, on the street, wherever. If she wants to talk to you, she’ll take them out of her own accord…
If a lady doesn’t want to talk, simply smile, apologize for interrupting, and wish her good day/evening/weekend, whatever. Forcing a conversation on an unwilling partner is a waste of your time and won’t end well…
It’s important to learn to read the settings and the signs.

That’s Not All…
Every woman and every situation are going to be different, so you have to get out there and get some experience.

It sounds hard, but I promise it gets easier with practice. 🙂

Which brings me to my next strategy…

7) Don’t Make Assumptions
Getting comfortable with and good at speaking with women is all about on-the-job-training: The more you do it, the better you’ll get.

While every conversation you have with a woman has the potential to lead to something more, you have to assume the opposite.

Start a conversation simply for the sake of having a conversation. It’s a reward unto itself.

This even applies to dates from apps and websites.

For example, not every first date is going to lead to sex or even a second date.

So, don’t approach her with the expectation of sex. Instead, relax and try to learn something about her.

Strategies 8-9: Conversation-Based
Finally, my last two strategies are all about what you say to her once you’ve approached (or she’s approached you).

They’re simple, but they’re effective ways to truly escalate your first interaction with a woman, so it goes the way you want.

8) Ask Questions & Listen
This might seem obvious, but ask her questions about herself!

And don’t just ask — listen to her answers, too.

From there, you can ask her follow-up questions. And look, you’re having an effortless conversation. 🙂

But what about going from an effortless conversation… to going back to your place?

Is there an easy way to make that happen?

In my experience, yes… and here’s how I discovered it:

9) Turn Things Sexual (& Get Her to Come Home With You)…
The other day, I was thinking:

“Why do some girls come home with me the first night I meet them, and others don’t…?

What’s the difference between ‘Let’s share a cab’ and ‘I have a morning meeting…maybe next time?’”

I thought about the past dozen or so one times a girl’s come home with me… and that’s when it hit me:

When I’m sitting next to a woman… and we’ve been talking for a few (like 5-15) minutes… there’s always a certain point when I have to decide:

“Am I gonna put my hand on her leg… or not?”

And you know what, when I do decide to go for it… and touch her like this… that’s what makes the difference.

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7 Signs She’s Playing You For A FOOL

If you ran a poll and asked guys what they hate most about dating, many would say this:

The lack of control.

It’s as if women control everything. That you not only have to initiate contact, but at any moment they can reject you simply because they have so many suitors.

This obviously inflates their ego and gives them a ton of power. And you probably learned this the hard way by getting played instead of getting laid.

Don’t feel bad. It’s happened to me several times. Situations where I sat there thinking everything was great when she either had another guy on the side or simply used me to boost her confidence.

Luckily, I discovered a new and simple way to take control out of women’s hands and put it into yours.

I’ll reveal it in a second. Right now though, let’s look at several signs that say one thing:

She’s playing you for a FOOL.

1. She never takes pictures with you – If she does, she’ll ruin her chances with the other guys she’s seeing. Hell, she may even be embarrassed of you and is just using you for money or something else.

2. She blows you off – Every time you’re about to go on a date, she has a new excuse. If she really wanted to see you, there would be no excuses.

3. You never meet her friends or family – It’s normal for this to take time. If you’ve been going out for a while though, important people in her life should know about you.

4. She says “I” instead of “we” – Saying “we” when talking about her future implies she wants you to be a part of it. Saying “I” implies that you’re not part of her plans.

5. Nothing is sexual – This is 2018 where things move a lot faster. No kissing, touching, or intercourse? She’s probably not attracted to you and sees you as a friend or some type of sugar daddy.

6. She flirts with other guys – Whether it’s in front of you, on social media, or anywhere else, this is a solid sign that she’s not serious about you and doesn’t even give a damn about your feelings.

7. She still talks to and about her ex – They flirt on social media. He calls and texts her. She tells you about their history and how important he was. Yep – she’s waiting on him to come back into her life and replace you with the quickness. Congrats on being the rebound guy!

I’m sure you’ve had women play with you like that in the past. And whether it took time to notice or you saw it from the start, it probably ticked you off.

What’s the best way to avoid this?

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The difference that makes the difference

Indifference (the difference that makes the difference)
1: unbiased impartial unconcern

2: apathy demonstrated by an absence of emotional reactions [syn: emotionlessness, impassivity, impassiveness, phlegm, stolidity,

3: the trait of lacking enthusiasm for or interest in things generally [syn: apathy, spiritlessness]

4: the trait of remaining calm and seeming not to care; a casual lack of concern [syn: nonchalance, unconcern]

“Indifference is the strongest force in the universe. It makes everything it touches meaningless. Love and hate don’t stand a chance against it.”
– Joan Vinge

This is my favorite subject.

I’ve always said that if men would master this ONE thing, they would no longer have ANY problems with chicks…


It would change the entire world of dating overnight.


This is one of THE most important techniques in creating attraction.

(Just my humble opinion)

When used properly, it drives chicks absolutely crazy.

It’s the,

“I don’t really care…”


“I’m not attached to the outcome…”

frame of mind that they’re attracted to.

Unlike everyone else they meet, you seem like you don’t have a care in the world.

Being a little indifferent is actually healthy for you too.

You avoid most of the peaks of life and the unproductive emotions that usually sidetrack you.

In fact, you’ll be able to turn your emotions on and off like a light switch…

Living a pretty smooth, drama free life.

Indifference causes her to feel comfortable with you.

It’s a “push-pull” type of thing.

You’re not pushing (like 99% of the guys she’s meeting)…

And this naturally makes her curious and pulls her in.

You want to use the word ‘Maybe’ and the phrase “we’ll talk about” when speaking to her.


“Maybe we’ll get together…”

“Maybe we’ll have drinks…”

“Maybe you can meet us later…”

There’s enough yes in maybe for you to seem indifferent, yet interested…

And enough to appear as a challenge – just slightly out of her reach.

Saying “we’ll talk about…” is also effective.

Again, this is non-committal, yet alluring.


“Give me a call and we’ll talk about getting together sometime…”

Never agree to anything.

You are telling her that the two of you will discuss the next step, IF there is one.

You haven’t made a final decision or been convinced yet.

It’s just another way of conveying your power.

Be careful with indifference though.

You can become so good at it, that women will think they don’t have a chance with you.

Basically, you’ll be back in the same place you started.

If you want to get all of best thinking on what creates that magical thing called ATTRACTION inside of a woman, then…

You need to read eBook “Attract Hotter Women”.

You can download it and be reading it in literally MINUTES from right now.

Go get it:

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It will not only explain this topic better…

It will also teach you other great places to take her that doesn’t cost money…

How to take things to a “physical” level…

… And much more.

Do it.

Now, if you’ve read my AHW eBook, and want to REALLY get a world-class education about how to pass her tests…

Along with “word-for-word” rebuttals for every situation you’ll find yourself in, then…

I’d recommend you get “Shit Test Encyclopedia”…

Just go to:
… to get it.



Here’s THE BEST TIP I can give you to get this cutie today! Approach her with the following INTERNAL MIND SET!

I’m sure you have heard people say, “It’s better to give, than receive” … or… “You get back more than you give.”

I love them.

They are absolutely true too.

The question most people ask me is… “What should I give?”

Give up … your anxiety

Give up … your low self-esteem

Give up … your attachment to the outcome

Give up … the use of PUA “routines”

Give up … getting contact information

Give up … going out to hook up

Give up … going out on traditional dates

Give up … using money and material objects to impress chicks

Give up … the limiting belief that you have to look like a male model

Give up … the limiting belief that the hot chick you’re talking to is the last one you’ll ever meet

Give up … the limiting belief that the hookups you’re getting now are the last time you’ll ever score

What you need to do is GIVE!…

Give … good energy

Give … her a chance to be interested

(stop hitting on her, end the conversation first)

Give … her YOUR phone number

Give … her a chance to pursue you


(you get the idea)

Giving also has another by-product that you probably don’t even realize.

You are being of service.

Here’s what I mean:

You are out there spreading the good energy, and the impact is that you often cause people who are in bad moods (being negative) to be in good moods (being positive)

… and more importantly…

They then spread that same good, positive energy to the next person they interact with, and so on and so on…

They are actually paying it forward.

And it all started with YOU.

I bet you didn’t realize that you are having a much bigger impact than you think.

Now, imagine if everyone you came into contact did that?

I want you to think about that for a moment.

It’s a huge revelation.

It was for me.

Everything we complain about socially can be overcome, in some aspect, by giving.

So the next time you’re feeling nervous about approaching her, just remember the secret to LIVING is GIVING.

Try it and let me know what happens.

And, of course, if you want to get all of best thinking on what creates that magical thing called ATTRACTION inside of a woman, then check out eBook “Attract Hotter Women”… just go to:


Making Yourself More Attractive To Women

I’ve got a bunch of YOUR emails waiting for me today. Let’s get right to MY brilliant answers…

Q. ***Success Story***

I just had to tell you how great your stuff is.

I got your first email (ten things most guys do) and before I finished reading the list, I went to the site and ordered the book. I figured what can I lose, I don’t have success now and I spent more then $40 on my last date and they offer a 100% money back deal.

I read it as soon as I downloaded it then read it again the next day, of course went and bought comedy writing secrets the 3rd day and read that the same afternoon.

I have to tell you I was clueless before I read your book. I would naturally get a few women attracted to me when I wasn’t trying because I didn’t have interest in them and would bust on them for my own amusement.

Of course when ever I got a date I would turn into major Wuss boy and do all the things I shouldn’t. I now understand and it all makes perfect sense.

The best part about your system is that it’s not trying to manipulate women it’s teaching you how to make yourself more attractive to them. I still have a lot to learn but it’s only been a week since I ordered the book so I’m well on my way. Wuss boy no more.

On to the success, remember it’s just the first week so it’s still minor success right now.

I’m naturally introverted so coming up with spur of the moment funny is somewhat of a problem (I’m working on it everyday).

With that said I decided to get some practice with online personals. I had already posted a profile before so I went back made some modifications and started sending emails.

I did ok with my own cocky/funny responses but it was taking a little too much time to write the emails… I started taking some of your examples and modifying them to my own needs.

So far I’m at about a 90% response rate, and I’m only sending emails to the best looking girls on there who have obviously gotten a lot of emails. One of the responses I just got today (she looks like about a 9.5 from her pics) was:

“Hey… as far as I know I am fairly normal… I think! I’m kinda in a hurry so I can’t really write much right now… sorry but I will definitely get back to you Mr. Cuteness! (God this stuff is great, I’m gonna have some fun with this one!)”

Also one of the dates I went on only a day or two after reading your stuff went great. I had her laughing the entire time and even had her telling me about her sex toys. (Most women I know like to talk about sex just as much as guys so if you can bring it up in a cocky/funny way you can have some great conversation.)

Anyway, on to the end. I knew I wasn’t really interested in her so I cut it short and didn’t take things to the next step, but it was great practice and I got an email the next day saying how much she enjoyed herself and that I am naturally charismatic and that if I didn’t vibe her the same way she still wants to hang out.

Oh I don’t want to forget, I used the you want me thing and had her blushing. Needless to say I’m about to start having a lot of fun. Thanks for giving me that great big He-Bitch- Slap and smacking the wuss out of me.

Forever Grateful (I know wussie closing),

D at the U of A

P. S. For those of you who haven’t done it: Read the book!

A. Hey D., you have no idea how glad I am that I could help… and we all need some help at some point in life.

And I REALLY appreciate your comment about my materials not being about manipulating women… but instead being about becoming attractive to women. Most men don’t get this distinction, but once you DO get it, an entirely different world opens up… and all kinds of things become available that weren’t before.

And just so you (and everyone reading this) knows…

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I Was Just Like You When I Got Started
The Cocky & Funny comments didn’t come quickly and naturally to me. I practiced a lot online, chatted with a lot of women, etc. to polish up my skills. It didn’t help that I had to also figure out what Cocky & Funny even was to begin with… but I feel where you’re coming from.

So stay with it. You’re on the right track.

Q.Your material is awesome. It has completely changed my dating and it’s results. I lost a really hot girlfriend late last year, and it wasn’t until I started reading your newsletters that I finally understood what went wrong.

I wussed out, completely. “I just need some room to find myself. It’s not you, it’s me.” Man you were literally quoting my gf!

But now I get it. In the last few months I have been able to get phone numbers every time I go out, if I want to. I get chicks to buy me drinks now, and had one girl force her number on me. Gotta love that.

Even some of the girls with boyfriends I hang out with every now and then are saying I’m cocky, and pull the o’l hit me on the shoulder and give me the “I can’t believe you just said that” look, with a big smile of course. Man everything you have said makes perfect sense, and really works.

I got my first date from an online dating service by replying to this chick with a very cocky and slightly funny statement that I mostly intended to drive her away. She wrote back saying I was way too cocky, but you know what? She went out with me! Muahahahaaa.

I haven’t found the right girl yet, but your techniques have helped me weed out more wrong ones in the last few months than in the last few years before. And I can’t describe how cool it feels to have a stack of numbers that I will never call, but know I could if I wanted too.

I’m about to get your e-book, so I’ll keep you updated on how well that works.

One question though, what’s your deal with tea?

Thanks, CL – Dallas, TX

A. Lol… what’s my deal with tea? It’s classy, cheap, and quick. And you can escape if she winds up being crazy. Try it, you’ll like it. Oh, and iced tea is acceptable as well, by the way.

Now, you said a lot of great stuff in your email…

You’re not the only guy who’s heard those painful words “I need to find myself” and “It’s not you, it’s me.” But now that you understand ATTRACTION better, you’ll definitely be preventing that in the future.

Also, I enjoyed your story about the online personal date… and how she said that you were too cocky, then went out with you. Now you’re getting it, and I like the way you think… you haven’t found the right girl yet, but by beginning to understand attraction you’ve been able to weed out the ones who aren’t right for you faster.

That in mind, I have a question for you…

It’s the one you get when you download and read my book… make sure and pay close attention to it. It’s called The 8 Personality Types Of Men Who Are Naturally Attractive To Women, and it’s 100% GUARANTEED to help you understand how to keep the girl you want once you find her.

Go read the report, and thanks for the email.

Q.My name is N, thank you for ur kind email. I have had, for the past six years problems talking to women.

Often I approach one that takes my fancy in a bar and she just laughs in my face, perhaps it is my mullet and novelty beard but i don’t want to change my image as I’m happy with the way i look.

I also seem to find myself feeling sexually pent up and this makes me more desperate and hence starts a chain of cataclysmic problems in which i just frighten off any women by suggesting she “come back to my place”.

I don’t know how to leave this vicious circle of dating desperation i have found myself in. I was just wondering if you had any advice for such a lost cause.

Yours faithfully,

N (the potential loser)

A. Sometimes I get emails from guys who say things like “Are all those stories and emails you print real? Or do you make them up?”…

Mullet and novelty beard? The potential loser?

Yep, that’s a real question, from a real person… I’m here to tell ya… I don’t make any of these stories and questions up… ever. Not even one.

I mean, could I make up stuff like this?

Q. You know I’m not dissing you, I’m sure you provide a good service, but I am a regular guy and I like to do for others, especially women I like, and I’m not gonna hide who I am.

I’m a nice guy who does not play games, I’ll admit I get played, sometimes, but that’s the price I have to pay for being such a great guy. good luck and I hope that not too many meaningless relationships come from your advice, leading to a higher divorce rate.

A. Okay… I’ve included the above letter because I want to use it to demonstrate the attitude of a guy who is naturally unsuccessful with women.

This particular guy actually thinks that his approach of getting played a few times because “That’s the price I have to pay for being such a nice guy” is not only the best thing for him, but also the best thing for everyone else.

Notice the “I hope not too many meaningless relationships come from your advice” comment. The subtle implication here is that what I teach is bad for relationships… and that doing for others and being a nice guy are the ultimate sacrifice and demonstration of your superiority.

Well, I have some sobering news for you…

Doing Nice Things For A Woman Is The Ultimate Way To “Play Games” And “Manipulate” Her
Walking into a relationship with a woman thinking that doing unhealthy, unbalanced things like taking her out, buying her things, and giving her gifts is the biggest way to try to “manipulate” a woman… you’re basically trying to “buy” her attention. It’s the WUSSY thing to do.

Even worse… when women sense this manipulative behavior, they take advantage of the perks without giving anything in return.

And finally, your not-so-subtle suggestion that the things I teach guys contributes to meaningless relationships and a higher divorce rate did not go unnoticed. And guess what? It’s also misinformed.

The reality is that YOU are the one who is doing things that are leading to more meaningless relationships and a higher divorce rate.

Stop the insanity, man. WOMEN DON’T WANT WUSSIES. Period. They don’t want men who have to buy their attention and approval. They don’t want men who act like women.

Want to make yourself more attractive to women? Then understand just one simple fact right now:

Women Want Men Who Act Like Men
Do yourself a huge favor. Think this one over carefully. I can tell that you’re not TRYING to manipulate women and do things that lead to a more meaningless relationship and contribute to a higher divorce rate… but you are.

If you’d like to stop doing it, I suggest you click here right now:

On Being A Man…

Q.You have been a god-send the last few months since i discovered your mailing list. It’s been a great daily reminder and motivator. But now i have a kinda odd question.

You’ve always taught that attractive women are always approached and they all have seen and heard all the lines. yada yada. BUT what if I’m not normal and i don’t chase after hot model figures, but rather a down to earth, pretty cute and nice, not too wild, doesn’t even go to bars much.

Would your advice still apply. This situation kinda reminds me of American Pie, where one of the characters, i forget his name, has to go after a not so hot, plain Jane choir girl.

I’m sure if she was real, she would not have been approached by as many guys as a hot girl would be approached by. Does the cocky/funny attitude come off as different for this type of girl, or just kinda rude and pushy.

Please include this in your newsletter as I’m sure there’s a bunch of guys out there that don’t always go after the head cheerleader type. Do it for all of us nerds.

PS. One of my favorite tips in your book was to watch James Bond movies and learn his posture and attitude, etc. Its killer, i swear its worked like gold for me. Lots of contact from females. woohoo

MO from KS

A. Yes, my advice will still apply. Now quit talking about it and thinking about it and get out there and do something.

Find out for yourself. The only one who can really validate this stuff for you is you.

Go use the materials!

Q.Bullseye! Your e-book is exactly right!

It reminds me of when I was flying for the Air Force (Trust me, nobody is cockier than a pilot). My buddies and I would walk into a Dallas bar like we owned the place (shoulders back, chin up, slow walk).

Guys would end up with some absolutely gorgeous women before to long. Sometimes it only took as much as catching a woman looking at you, curling your finger in a come hither fashion and you were off to the races.

After reading your book, I realize the attraction was all about body language. We just did it without thinking about it or having a method. I had no idea there was a method so I want to learn more.

Now I realize just about all the times I’ve been wildly successful with women have to do with cocky+funny and other techniques you mention. “Oh! My hair is such a mess,” she said.

And I replied, “Yeah, it is! I don’t think I can be seen with you!” I had to laugh when I read that one. I actually used that quite a while ago. She grinned, smacked me in the arm and said, “Shut up!” — still grinning.

Also, every time I’ve failed miserably with a woman it is because of something you recognized as failure tactics.

Like you, I’ve been on both sides of the dating capabilities fence and the women and life in general are soooo much better on this side as an alpha male. You’ve done a great job of focusing your product on meeting women but readers should know that you are selling a whole lot more than just technique.

You’re selling a bit of freedom, self-respect, and relaxation. Think about it. what kind of lion would you rather be? The alpha male that owns hundreds of square miles, never goes hungry, and gets laid, or the juvenile male who gets his ass kicked and has to hump a tree for companionship?

It’s good to be the king! It’s all in the mind set.

I’ve got a question. My home town is pretty small and so has small town women looks if you know what I mean so I’m kind of stuck. Luckily, there is a great city about 75 miles away that I’m trying to move to.

I go there pretty often especially since I have family there. Until I move, I probably won’t be going to the city just for a cup of tea and some stimulating conversation.

But I figure on meeting my next girlfriend from the big city I can say, “I’m hanging out with my brother on Saturday. Maybe afterwards you could meet me at Juan Valdez’s cafe for a cup of tea and stimulating conversation.” Sound like a plan? What other suggestions do you have for a guy with high standards living in a small town?

Thanks, SS Colorado

A. You know, as I read your email I thought about that scene in that 80’s classic “Top Gun” where they’re in the bar, and the guys are all in uniform picking up the babes. The arrogance and cocky attitudes coming from Tom Cruise and Val Kilmer were the epitome of what you’re talking about.

It’s interesting that you had that experience in real life.

I’ve only known one guy that was a Top Gun Pilot type of guy. He was from San Diego, and he was actually one of the instructors at the Top Gun school. This guy was probably 5’4″ tall… but he had this attitude about him that said “I am the man.”

He was always surrounded by women, of course.

To answer your question, I think you’re on the right track. I’ve had dates with women that lived 2,500 miles away… no problem.

Instead of maybe afterwards you could meet me you could say “I’m going to be in the area on Sunday… so get me while the gettin is good… and don’t screw this up!”

The “maybe you could meet me” sounds weak.

You’re not looking for approval, remember?

Q. I had the ultimate C&F zen moment at the end of my date last night.

When I first scheduled a date with this girl, I’d been making some comments about sandwiching her in between my 6 o’clock and 10 o’clock (quite literally, I am booked solid… hot dates for weeks in advance, thanks to you and C&F!), so she had better impress me in her allotted time slot since the competition was so fierce.

Anyway, had a fun night of cocktails, busting on her the whole time, keeping her on the fine line between laughing her ass off and omigod-did-he-really-say-that?!

We were saying goodnight in the parking lot after, and the girl literally attacked me.

After making out with her for a few minutes I pulled back and said, totally deadpan, “Not bad… you were almost as good as my 6 o’clock.” At which point the girl practically screamed in (sexual) frustration, “You are SO damn cocky!… and I love it!”

Straight from the proverbial horse’s mouth. 🙂 I’ll let you guess what happened next.

Your material has put me in the driver’s seat in relationships for the first time in, like, ever. I’ve now been on dates with 4 different girls over the last 5 nights.

Girls are fighting over me and my friends think I’m a god… all thanks to you and those three magic words, cocky and funny. Wow. I’m on the verge of nominating you as godfather for my dozens of imminent love children.

E. in Seattle

A. Wow, E., sounds to me like you’re on a rampage.

And isn’t it amazing how we’ve all had women talk about other guys, but most of us wouldn’t dream of mentioning other women? But, oh the effect it has… even when used in jest and fun.

Great story.

Oh, and if you’re reading this right now and thinking to yourself: “I really need to be having four dates in five nights,” then guess what? You’re right. You do.

And I’ll tell you something. If you’re walking around right now and you have no idea HOW to get four dates in five nights, then that’s only the tip of the iceberg.

In other words…

I Know What It’s Like To Have ZERO CLUE How To Succeed With Women
It basically SUCKS. It’s like a constant drag on your mind and emotions. Everywhere you go, and everywhere you look are more reminders of the fact that you don’t know how to attract women.

Well, I spent many years of my life in that same situation, and I finally got to the point where I just couldn’t stand it anymore.

It took me tons of trial and error, learning, testing, trying things that didn’t work, and getting to know guys who were naturals with women… but in the end I figured it out.

If you want to learn all of my very best ideas, techniques, and personal strategies, then I’d recommend that you check out my Advanced Dating Techniques program. It’s taken me literally years to put all of this great material together, and you can get it all in about 12 hours of instant online viewing. (Relax, you don’t need to watch it all at once!)

But you DO need to click here:

And… if you’ve gone through my Advanced Dating Techniques program, and you’d like to learn more specifics… like how to use Body Language to attract women, or how to master the teasing communication skill that I call Cocky & Funny, then go and check out my programs that are designed to help you with those areas…

For example, my program Body Language For Success With Women And Dating is one of the ultimate weapons in your ATTRACTION ARSENAL… it’s designed to teach you how to create and build attraction with your body language and voice tone alone!

If you’d like more details, you can learn more (plus watch some great video clips of the program) here:

Advanced Dating Techniques

Finally… if you haven’t downloaded my eBook Double Your Dating (and the three FREE bonus booklets that come along with it) then go do that right now. You can download it and be reading it within a few minutes. You can get it here.
Click to learn more…

I’ll talk to you soon.